Once Again ..Slam Bang!
Again today while I am in my office my husband's child is slamming and banging doors and cabinets in the bathroom and her room. I am so pissed about it bc I have already told my husband about it. The messed up thing about is that he is home and claims not to hear it. Yet, I can, clearly. He supposedly said something about it to her but yet it continued. Boy he is going to pay for this mess. I told him that for certain, without a doubt, he has to make other arrangements for her while I am working. This is utterly ridiculous, I bet it would be funny if the excessive noise during calls with customers and conferences call the noise was heard and I was fired. These two butt holes have not regard and respect for the fact that I am working. I am sooo through, I did try to have a different outlook on her summer visits this year but I absolutely hate it! This type of shhhhhh really makes me want to pack my shhhhh and file for divorce.
Oh yeah and he had the nerve
Oh yeah and he had the nerve to say to me, "What am I going to do?" regarding her being here with my while I work at home and he is at work. I said, " What would you do if I were not here?"
You're my new best friend!
You're my new best friend! Same thing happens here. I work out of my house, and the noise issue is a constant battle, especially now because we have the skids for most of the summer (God help me), and DH works all day. It's only been 4 days, and I'm already resentful. It's going to be a long summer.
both of ya's should get
both of ya's should get squirtguns. and make damn sure your DH's know that them choosing NOT to handle it is the SAME as them choosing for YOU to handle it - and u can, in whatever way you feel like!!! if he doesnt like how u handle it, too bad, he can step up and do it then.... }:)
Ugh, I just had to break up a
Ugh, I just had to break up a freakin' wrestling match between the two of them. I saw a punch from one and a kick from the other, and separated them. Wouldn't you know the one who I thought I was helping out by splitting them up started defending the other one and smart-mouthing me. Geez. I can't win.
And DH feels so guilty about their having to deal with a psycho BM that he hates to set strict rules, which these two wild animals need. Of course, it only takes him an hour or so of their behavior, and he can't take it either. And he won't be home from work for another hour.
Maybe I'll have to develop a case of something contagious so they have to go somewhere else!!!! Hmmm. What's the easiest to fake? lol
Take the doors off the
Take the doors off the hinges? Nothing to slam that way.
Take the doors off the
Take the doors off the hinges. PERIOD DOT
I'm soooo glad my skids are
I'm soooo glad my skids are grown and have their own lives now. Well, sorta. I does get better, guys. Although, SD has been hinting around about needing a place to live. I told my DH "hell to the no!"
I'm with ya, mine are grown,
I'm with ya, mine are grown, too. SD22 is getting a divorce and her and her 2 kids are living with BM and BM's boyfriend. In a 2 bedroom apartment, no less. So, I'm also holding my breath for the day she asks to "stay" with us. Ha! Only when I'm dead and even then, prepare to be haunted.
"What would you do if I were
"What would you do if I were not here?"
And that's the ultimate question, isn't it? He needs to figure something out, period.
If he was single or you did not work at home, what would he do? He needs to do it.
We had my SD EOWE in the summer, just the same as we did the rest of the year, with the exception of a few days here and there that my husband could take off work during summer. And she was totally his responsibility.