Lots of BM's have boyfriend's and husbands that live with the SKIDS !!!!

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So I wonder how exactly that is working out for them? I shudder to think. My SO's BM, she just got married over the summer. And well, my awful skids LIVE WITH HIM Sunday to Friday and the psycho daughter lives there full time!POOR POOR MAN. I wonder how that guy manages. And what kind of an idiot he is. Well, he did move in to her paid for house so he is living rent free, she works full time and gets $2000 a month from my SO, shes got hefty bank accounts, a paid for SUV...hmmm. But you know what? NOTHING IN THE WORLD IS WORTH LIVING WITH THOSE BRATS.

Do you guys ever think about your BM's significant others and how they deal with the awful skids. I mean if we cannot stand it they must feel the same way! Do you guys ever get a chance to commiserate with them?

I saw the guy once. He was very very short.

I COULDN'T DO IT. COULDNT DO

I COULDN'T DO IT. COULDNT DO IT.

Well, the child is lucky to

Well, the child is lucky to have you. And that you put up with it. Most others would not.

When BM finally found a sap

When BM finally found a sap to marry her SS was 15 and she just booted him out. He hasn't spend one night in her home since (even when homeless on the street in front of her house) in the past 13 years.

WTF?

DH came and rescued him when

DH came and rescued him when he found out he was living in a tent (BM didn't tell him). But he booted him out when he was in his early 20s because of threatened violence.

Yeah, by early 20's its

Yeah, by early 20's its probably time to get your own place.

Thats one of the reasons why

Thats one of the reasons why BM hasn't been able to find ANY man to stick around for more than 6 months:) That and she is a lazy, entitled, broke skank, but the two boys at home now are OUT OF CONTROL. No man would put up with it and support her ass to boot.

I just said this in another

I just said this in another post, lol.

BM has a live in boyfriend that she's been with longer than DH and I have been together. He's never expected to do shit. He doesn't pick them up, drop them off, take them to school, babysit them, nothing. He doesn't go to their school functions.

Pisses me off that I'm expected to fill some sort of 'mother role' to skids and no one expects shit from him.

Yeah what's that about? I

Yeah what's that about?

I just always wonder about BM'S husband....HOW CAN HE STAND THE SKIDS? it must be different for him. He's a guy...and I bet they play XBOX together. Maybe the guy is gross and messy too, like the skids. I am sure he adores the teen SD walking around in her panties all day. The psycho....in front of her own dad was one thing but her step...he's probably got a secret fantasy about her. Okay.....that's wrong. She's a psycho, but I know that's what she's trying for. U bet BM Loves that!!!

Maybe they BF spoke up from

Maybe they BF spoke up from day one.

I love my SKs but I do very little parenting. In 3.5 to his kids I have baby sat for DF once. He does most of the cooking when they are here.

I made it's clear to DF before we decided to live together that I was not going to play nanny or mommy.

His kuds are well behaved and respectful.

Maybe they BF spoke up from

Maybe they BF spoke up from day one.

I love my SKs but I do very little parenting. In 3.5 to his kids I have baby sat for DF once. He does most of the cooking when they are here.

I made it's clear to DF before we decided to live together that I was not going to play nanny or mommy.

His kuds are well behaved and respectful.

I do not communicate with BMs

I do not communicate with BMs SO. He is just as immature as BM. He threatened to bash SDs head off the wall. It is court ordered that SD cannot be left alone with BMs SO. His BKs were removed from the home (by CPS) because of bruises, welts, and lacerations. He headbutted his son (4 at the time) because he didn't want to go into his car seat. Dad's reaction was to headbutt him.

THAT'S SCARY.

Holy crap...That is beyond

Holy crap...That is beyond scary.

BM's DH is a wuss he looks like a beat down dog. She treats him like an idiot. I actually feel bad for the kid...oh Did I mention he's younger than BM like 5 or 7 years.

My skids BM husband drives

My skids BM husband drives them to all their soccer practices during the week for her and apparently waits in his jeep and plays his guitar. He's in some dorky heavy metal band that play gigs for free. And he is like 4'11. And a really big weirdo like the rest of them. These kids are all blatantly OFF. Like you know those type of families when you are like "its the so and so's" and every single one of them is just STRANGE. The mom painted the kids bathroom in frogs with gigantic bulging eyes and everything frog decorated. But ugly frogs. like BUGGED OUT EYES....really creepy looking. And she kinda looks like that too.

BM's boyfriend buys SD14's

BM's boyfriend buys SD14's love. He takes her out to eat (which is the way to her heart, I tell you), fun places like arcades and the mall, buys her fancy expensive stuff like a $150 hair straightener...and he pays all of BM's bills (including the lawyer she got to try and fight for an increase in CS from DH).

I don't know how he puts up with the brat at home unless she is faking it like she did with me in the beginning. Only difference is I didn't buy her love. I didn't dote on her and make her the center of my universe. If he's doing that, she's putty in his hands.

I just got my daughter a

I just got my daughter a really nice hair straighter at TJ MAXX for like 45$ on clearance. $150 is outrageous. Only an idiot pays that much.

I picture this girl as on the way to portly if she isn't already. Food isn't a good substitute for love. My SD loves her BM'S husband too, he is desperately trying to impress her. At least he was until they got married. Maybe not anymore now that they tied the knot and maybe he's seen what she's truly like.

I predict the guy divorces her within five years.

Oh but he's buying her love

Oh but he's buying her love don't you see? It's not just any old flat iron - it's the BESTEST flat iron. She made sure to emphasize that it cost $150 and it was the BEST money could buy!

And yes, she's always been chubby but she exploded over the summer! She is shorter than me, I think she's about 4' 9" at age 14 and she weighs a good 190lbs now. I honestly thought she was 6+ mos pregnant but it's just a spare tire around her gut. She would eat non-stop if you'd let her. We had that same issue with her when she was still visiting us.

So far, BM and the guy have been together since late spring/early summer. I'd love to be a fly on the wall in her home for one day just to see how things are there.

Oh but he's buying her love

Oh but he's buying her love don't you see? It's not just any old flat iron - it's the BESTEST flat iron. She made sure to emphasize that it cost $150 and it was the BEST money could buy!

So far, BM and the guy have been together since late spring/early summer. I'd love to be a fly on the wall in her home for one day just to see how things are there.

190 lbs? Holy cow!!!!

At LEAST

You have to think....for the

You have to think....for the SO'S of the BM...they are doing all the driving at first, being on their best behavior etc. And then pretty soon it has to wear them down. This poor guy DIDN'T MOVE IN UNTIL THEY GOT MARRIED!!! Imagine his surprise when it went from dating to having the skids 24/7. I am guaranteeing my BM husband is miserable right now. He has to be.

I remember this summer, the only time I laid eyes on him, I saw his jeep and a trailer hitch as he was unloading his things at BM'S and we were picking up the douche brothers. I was thinking to myself. Poor guy....he has no idea what he's in for. Their own father can barely stand them. Now that we just have the boys weekends only...and my SO recognizes their bad behaving, when she tries to increase his parenting time....he's like, "I cant handle more time with them." That guy is screwed.

You have to think....for the

Yeah, I hear ya. We've

Yeah, I hear ya. We've pretty much banned SD14 from our place. We even moved into a 1 bedroom apt to save a few bucks since she basically moved in with her mom in June and we hadn't heard from her in months. Just sucks because DH truly is a great man and my DD says SD is throwing away a perfectly great dad.

I am getting a coupe so I

I am getting a coupe so I will only have two doors....and therefore....a skid free car!

There ya go! SD14 was

There ya go! SD14 was already banned from my SUV because the last time she rode in it she put half of a chocolate bar on the backseat and allowed it to melt...ON PURPOSE. Yep, we take DH's SUV everywhere and what pisses me off is if she was riding in the front passenger seat when I'm not with them (MY SEAT) she cranks it all the way up toward the dash!!!!! I always have to fix it when I ride in his vehicle again. I've told her a million times and DH said "well, it was her seat before it was yours" - Oh let me tell you, when he said that I looked at him and said "does she have sex with you?" and he said "of course not" and I said "then WHOSE SEAT IS IT NOW?" Yeah, go ahead and fuck with my seat again, you little twit. He won't allow her to move it anymore!

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Lots of BM's have boyfriend's and husbands that live with the SKIDS !!!!