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dragonfly5's picture

What questions would you have asked about his kids?

Financial, emotional, time, the ex, when does your obligation end...etc.

Please be specific.

I want to know from you all, the experts, what should I nail down before I consider marriage.

My child is grown and independent. His are 10 and 13.

Thank you so much for your help.

Unfreakingreal's picture

Mustangs questions are perfect. Also, ask if there is ever the possibility of them having to live under the same roof as you. (unless the BM tragically dies which I guess then you have no choice) Had I known this I would have bailed out a long time ago.