My soon to be stepson is saying horrendously horrible things. Swearing at things, calling me names etc... That he should not even know about. I have had the feeling for a while by the way he acts that his uterus donor has been saying things particularly about me to or in front of him. His father and I agree we will not bad talk her even if he is not in the same room. I feel it only makes more problems for him. I have taken care of kids for over 5 yrs and have seen what problems can arise from situations like this. We would love to have him full time but have yet to get it to court. Meanwhile, his vocabulary and his actions are becoming increasingly more alarming. He has been calling me a cunt, says things are a stupid bitch, and when he gets in trouble for something he starts shaking and covering his face like someone would hit him. My fiancé and I both stand firm in watching what we say around him and would definitely never strike him. Not to mention, these words dont ever play a part in our vocabularies, let alone while he is with us. I have tried talking to my soon to be ss and seeing if he is upset and letting him know that hurts peoples feelings yet he won't say why he said it or where he heard it. Then he tells me how he is going to see his mama and papa but I'm not allowed to go in and so on. I have tried to talk to him, yet he won't tell anyone what the prob is. I just don't know what to do!!!