Dw is a geniius
My dw is an idiot at times and I wish she would find her brain/spine. She sticks to her guns at random times. She says she is 100% committed to dealing with the kids behavior and entitlement issues, lack of manners and destructive behavior.But the kids have spent the night at her parents house 2 nights this week on school nights which is part of the issue. Grandma and grandpa don't belive in co siquences or boundaries and act like the kids personal servents...Bad mouth mom ..use the TV as a babysitter and there is no set bedtime. This week they have...dented a rental car by throwing rocks...not cleaned their room..broke a brand new tablet, caused scene after scene in a store and that is just the short list. Now that they kids have been there they are crying that they don't like their school and want to go to the school grandma wants them to go to. We have talked to the teachers...basically their behavior isn't tolerated so that's the issue.my dw is a genius
Oh she doesn't even know this
Oh she doesn't even know this site exists. I vent my anger on here because I get so tired of being supportive and and then her turning around and doing the things she said she wasn't going to do. Limited visits and no over nights has been an argument with us. She believes the kids should be with their grandparents whenever they want, even if it adds to behavior issues. Most of my frustratin Is with her parents. She was raised to always bow down to them and that they and the kids come first...not anything or anyone else. Example...they got mad because she spent my b day with me and didn't go to their party to celebrate her dad's life [which they planned on my birthday]. I'm not mad at the kids. I'm mad at the adults that keep enabling this behavior to the point where it is detrimental to their development. I feel like moving far away is the only solution
Yea they are extremely
Yea they are extremely manipulative people. Some of the unbreakable family tie s5uff is cultural..she is hispanic,I am half and half white so I have seen two different cultural family dynamics. I know it's a cycle that is hard for her to break out of, and moving away would help, if all go's to plan we will be moving next year and will have positive family members from both sides near by. It's so nice to hear people understand, you guys are great.