BM has officially lost it..gone too far with court situation.
I posted earlier today about my situation. So my DH got off his butt and went to get the court papers. This crazy bitch is filing for child support saying that my husband makes 5000 a month! REALLY?!?! that is news to me and she " switched" jobs and now makes less money that is why she is filing for child support. Umm FYI she quit her job and now "works" at her new fiances raggedy ass restaurant( pretty much made a fake w-4 saying that she worked there when she knows damn well she doesnt. That is just the beginning. My husband received this letter a pretty much a rebuttal to the court papers we served her regarding modification. She is going for full custody stating that I harass her and she is worried that my "mental state" is affecting her son. are you fucking serious?!?! all the problems her and my husband have had problems because of me... umm i have been around for three years and my SS is almost 8... I just need advice from anyone that has been to court and has this issue... will the judge actually believe this shit?
yep..My husband and I have
yep..My husband and I have been married for almost 10 years. When I married him, he had SS15, Sd12, SD8, and SS3. He had custody of the kids and she did not pay any child support. I did not realize is until recently that she had been collecting Food Stamps for all the kids even though she only had them..at most..2 weekends a month. She has not kept a job...she was on un emplyment and government subsidized housing. I asked health & welfare about it when I discovered it, which, by the way, was when I went to apply for them becasue WE NEEDED them to feed the kids. State Response: If she has the kids even 1/2 day a month, she is qualified. WHAT THE HECK!!! She has been using them to buy food for her parents so that they can drive her the 45 miles to come get the kids when she does !! HOW ABOUT WORKING@@@@@ The kids are now 24, 21, 18, and 13 and she still gets it for the 18 and 13 y/o. The 18 y/o is in college and the 13 y/o here. SHE HAS NOT WORKED FOR THE MAJORITY OF THE TEN YEAR!!! Who would choose to work when a magic money machine will pay for their food and gas every month!! PITIFULL!!
I don't know where you live,
I don't know where you live, but here in NYC, the judges have computers in the courtrooms.
They enter the SS#s and pull up their current place of employment and pay history.
They also check to see if the CP is on welfare.
Is your husband paying CS now?