Bloody angry!
DP's sister saw BM in a shopping centre (they have had no contact for several years and dp's sister has had very little to do with ss up until last year). she has aparently arranged with bm that she can see ss anytime she wants from bm's house, this was without discussing this with my dp first, this is after telling me our parenting skills were questionable and completely disagreeing with our disciplining him telling me we would drive him away.
We have just begun to see improvements with ss through a lot of hard work on both parties accounts and dp's sister has had very little to do with it so I'm very very mad she would arrange to take ss straight from bm's without discussing the option with dp first. We only see ss two days a week, if hes gonna be going anywhere over the summer he should be coming here!
So angry with her interfering ways, she does nothing but slate bm normally, and now she's her best friend!!!
ARGH
blendedfam i would understand
blendedfam i would understand that but she has seen ss 4 times in 6 months and was happy with it, she has interfered a lot lately and I fear this is just another trying to get control of a situation she shouldnt have control of anyway, i appreicate her wanting to see her nephew but the fact is she does! We have had lots of problems with bm and aunt has had an opinion on everything thats gone on, and an opinion on our recent discipline of ss.
If she wanted to see ss more she could have spoke to dp, either to see him more when he is with us, or to arrange something with bm, regardless she should have contacted dp first.