My wife just informed me that she is going to meet SD21 (almost 22) after work tomorrow to hang out for a while. I don't really have a problem with them getting together. The problem I have is that my wife feels she has to buy something for the leach. Even on Mother's Day she bought her something....she is not a mother! AND she gave nothing to her mom but a card. The last time they went out I confronted her because she bought us these necklaces...but she bought her daughter one too. When I confronted her about buying her daughter one, she lied. She said she didn't. When I produced the receipt she came up with, oh she bought it, but her daughter paid her back. Another lie.

Anyway, moving on to tomorrow, I want to bring up the fact that she doesn't need to pay for her daughter's meal ticket or buy gifts. We have our own priorities of where our money needs to be spent and her daughter is not one them. I don't want to fight with her though.

Any advice?