I just need to vent. I have a 4 month old bio and a 8 year old SD. I’m sitting in bed nursing the 4 month old as it’s about the time he goes to bed and DH pops his head in the door and asks if I’m going to nurse BS and put him to bed - I’m a little puzzled as I do this every night like clockwork so I tell him yes. He says “well I’m going to take SD to look at Christmas lights (a huge display 45mim away that we had planned to go to as a family) because he doesn’t want her sitting at home doing nothing”.  So they leave and I’m like WTF?!? He doesn’t ask if I want to go - not that I could anyway because the baby is almost asleep and there’s no way in hell im waking him up  to put him in the car and then wake him up again when we get home. Not. Doing. It. 

So now I’m sitting at home alone. Half asleep baby in my arms. I love this little munchkin but DH is off his rocker.