Sd23's college graduation was last Saturday.The whole day and night was a circus and a slap in the face to me as I was not invited to the ceremony or the party that was paid for by my FH. Of course he did ask me to go to the party about 15 minutes before he was leaving, but I politely declined as I wasn't invited. He said I am inviting you, and I say it's not your party you are just paying. Needless to say he told me he did not want to be at the party and would only be there about an hour and then we would go to dinner and a movie. Of course he never shows up or calls, when I finally call him at 9:15 he says and I quote - "Hey babe I am just settling the bill and will be home after that.:sick: :barf: - this is 2,1/2 hours after he promised me he would be home. Honestly how can he act so cavelier - as if my feelings mean nothing? Well we had a huge fight over that as I explained to him that not only did his precious daughter disrespect me all day, but then so did he. Of course he apolgizes and admits he f'd up, but really what does that mean?

I am cutting grass and weeding and her cousin, aunt, mom, boyfriend and grandpa are at our house at 10:00 am to get dressed and take pictures. Why is it that I am the only one to offer food and drinks to these people? And why do I do it when they don't even acknowledge my existence otherwise?

I have hope that SD23 will finally get her shit together and get out, but first that would require her getting up every morning at a decent hour and trying to find a JOB. So far nada...she has slept in and partied late. He says her bf is working 2 jobs now so they can move out - my exact words - oh I see she has found another daddy.