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6 weeks of life without the drama princess...lol - NEED ADVICE PLEASE

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Well the first 3 weeks were great as she was so mad at daddy that she wouldn't talk to him or come around. A brand new car later (that daddy put down over 1/2 of the cost for a down payment)and a lot of guilt poured all over daddy and she is back telling us what she is going to do. She still lives with BM, still sleeps on the pull-out couch but spends her days off at our home doing laundry, washing her car, watching tv and leaving messes for me to clean up. Yesterday I found out from DIL that the drama princess was watching her niece and planning to spend the night at our house tonight.

7 months after graduation and she still lives with us.

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I just don't know what to do anymore. He promised me she would be gone by February. Now she says she will never be ready by then....I want to scream. She has been working for 5 months now making a decent living, why isn't she ready? Oh wait that would mean NO more FREE ride. She would need to be responsible and pay her own way. She pays no rent, does no chores, cooks for herself only and uses whatever groeceries or laundry detergent, toothpaste that she sees fit to use. I think I just need to get the hell out of dodge.

Graduation Day has Come and Gone! Does This mean The End Is Near?

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Sd23's college graduation was last Saturday.The whole day and night was a circus and a slap in the face to me as I was not invited to the ceremony or the party that was paid for by my FH. Of course he did ask me to go to the party about 15 minutes before he was leaving, but I politely declined as I wasn't invited. He said I am inviting you, and I say it's not your party you are just paying. Needless to say he told me he did not want to be at the party and would only be there about an hour and then we would go to dinner and a movie.

The spoled drama princess has crawled out from her cave and is rearing her ugly head

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by pretending that everything is ok now. After all the vile things she had to say about me and FH. Saying she would never live in the same house with me again as living with me was hell. He just let her worm her way back. Now she is pretending to be nice and he thinks she has accepted everything and is on the road to acceptance of our relationship... There were no consequences to her behavior from FH. It is so frustrating to watch the cycle begin again.

Well it came to blows last night

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SD23 finally made me lose my temper. Again I went down to the kitchen to cook dinner for the family and there she was making brownies. I asked her what she was doing and she said making brownies, I said well I was going to make dinner and wanted in the oven by 6:00, guess that's not going to happen. And she said no probably not... Well I turned to walk away and she started yelling at me about how she had a right to cook for herself. I said you are making brownies, I need to cook dinner. And then she yelled "IT"S NOT YOUR KITCHEN!". I said and it's not your's. And we need to share.

Glad to know I am not alone

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I live with a SD23 who thinks she is 10. My BF and I got enagaged on Friday and when she saw the ring she asked what it was for. When he told her she dropped my hand and walked away. She did not say congrats, nice ring, nothing. She just walked away. The next day she was in a rotten mood and her dad said I wonder what is wrong with her...LOL. I knew but wasn't going to say. He thinks it's becasue she was having a fight with her on again off again BF. But I know better. She has been trying to get rid of me since the day I moved in 2 years ago.