Again she backed out....
So bm was supposed to take the oldest for the summer starting this weekend. Now she says it will be only from 6-12 thru the end of June. Whoo hoo - a whole two weeks. His behavior is destroying this family and I just can't pretend to ignore it anymore. I don't know what to do...
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I would tell BM it is all of her original plan or nothing.
In fact I would inform BM that the family has already made plans based on her stated summer visitation with SS and that she must take him for the the entire time she originally notified you she would take.
That poor kid needs to know not only that his mom is dependable but also that SHE will be held accountable for following through with her commitments to the kid.
I would have my attorney hip deep up her butt over this BS.
Our judgement requires BioDad to give us a 60day notice of intent to exercise visitation and 2wks for us to respond with any adjustment requirements we have or if we want to exercise 10days of visitation in BioDad's region of residents during the long summer visitation.
I would not let her jerk either her son or your family around like this if I was you our your DH.
Just my thoughts of course.
Best regards,
Success is rarely final. Failure is rarely fatal. It is consistency of effort and courage that counts. Vince Lombardi
If only it were so simple
We cannot afford to continually take her to court or we would have done so already on other issues (like medical bills). It wouldn't be an issue if he weren't such a difficult child to deal with on all levels (hygiene, attitude, aggression, etc). We love him very much but that doesn't make up for the behavior that he refuses to change. The last thing we want is for him to think that no one wants him so it complicates matters. DH did tell him that if he doesn't straighten up we will put him in boys home though...but, dh has made empty threats before so I doubt ss12 believes it-lord knows that I don't.