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Submitted by non_mom23 on Sun, 04/12/2009 - 6:11pm

You know I actually was having hope that maybe BM could be somewhat civil. I wasn't hoping that she would be totally civil but somewhat. Well there is not hope now for the f'ing b***h. She is evil and will never change. Why do we keep having hope in the sociopaths in our lives?? Just ranting and am mad at myself for thinking there could actually be hope!!! No more...there is none.

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Submitted by Anon2009 on Sun, 04/12/2009 - 10:50pm

I like you too, Danyelle! We agree on a lot of things Smile

I also learned to expect the worst from BM. I started out with the hope that we could all make nice forvthe kids. However, BM didn't feel the same way. So I do think it's best to accept that we can only control ourselves...

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Submitted by BridgingTheGap on Tue, 02/09/2010 - 4:51pm

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Submitted by belleboudeuse on Mon, 04/13/2009 - 9:47am

Our Sacred Birthing Vessel is BPD, so at first, I really tried to think positively and give her the benefit of the doubt on the rare occasions when she was on an upswing and acting nice. But I found that whenever she was nice and we took it at face value, it would blow up in our faces later. Plus, being in the mode of constantly trying to hope she'll be better or hope every time she does something uncharacteristically nice, that maybe she's changing, is exhausting when, inevitably, the next interaction is her dumping a big load of sh*t on us.

So now, I've learned to just always expect the worst from her and not believe she's sincere when she does something nice. It's sad to have to be so cynical, but it's a lot less psychologically damaging and emotionally exhausting. Disengage.

BB

- You are not second best, you are not second class. Do not ever let anyone make you feel that way. (2Bloved)

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Submitted by now4teens on Mon, 04/13/2009 - 10:24am

But, unlike you, I never have to worry about her motives, because she never does anything nice for us. EVER.

Look up the word "Selfish" in the dictionary- her picture is probably there right next to it.

In six years it's been all about her, and how things can best benefit her life. And if they make our life more chaotic in the process- hey- that's just a BONUS in her eyes!

After all, my DH is just a paycheck to her (and a BIG one, at that!) $4250/month, baby- hand it over. And it better not be late, because I have my NEW baby to feed and you know I'm not getting my a$$ a job.

Gee, I guess I sound just a "little" cynical as well Wink

"Of course things worked out nicely for Carol Brady...she had a live-in maid and Mike's first wife was DEAD!"

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Submitted by belleboudeuse on Mon, 04/13/2009 - 11:36am

$4250 a MONTH???!?!?!!?!! How many frickin' kids does he have with her, 20????

I think my jaw just shattered on the floor. :jawdrop: !

BB

- You are not second best, you are not second class. Do not ever let anyone make you feel that way. (2Bloved)

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Submitted by Brooklynne on Mon, 04/13/2009 - 4:36pm

What a crock! They would have a chance at being college material if both their parents cared more about their education and less about them being in every activity known to man!