Well this weekend went great until sd's b-day party on Sunday at MIL's. My ss was there, for those of you who don't know he does not come to our home because bm says I am mean and has accused me of abuse on him. I feel very uncomfortable around him and he is very self centered and a total brat. He hardly sees dh, every Wednesday for 1 hour and EOW on Sundays for 2 hours, he makes it very clear that he wants to be with bm, no rules and he doesn't have to do anything. SS basically ignores dh and this is the 2nd time I have been around him since Aug 08. And both times bm has either said hateful things to sd's or calls and demands that my dh bring the kids back early from visitation. She called MIL's house Sunday and was yelling and fighting with dh about the skids going home early. She really ticks me off bad, to put it nicely. I don't want to have anything to do with ss, I go to these family things to make my MIL happy. I told dh that I was no longer going to family functions when ss is there, it causes to much heartache and stress. It has been almost 8 months since ss came to our house and I don't see it happening anytime in the near future. Do you think it is wrong of me to pull his individual picture off of the wall and leave the ones with him and the rest of the kids up? I hate looking at the pictures of him he has caused so much heartache with our whole family and he could care less, he doesn't even care that he has hurt and continues to hurt dh so badly. Dh has accepted that he doesn't want to be at our home, and sees how horrible he acts.