I am so tired, everytime I log into this site it is the same two people posting. (Choc, Shopaholic) I cannot believe that the two of you are arguing on this site, considering that it was never intended for this type of use. Everyone it entitled to their opinions, but to post over & over & over & over & over...ect.... I mean really!!.... I am sure neither of you have ever sent a contribution, to fund this site(correct me if I am wrong?)Maybe the two of you should get your own website or instant message so you can both put yourselves in front of the computer and hash this shit out daily, since it appears that two of you have nothing better to do. I would hate to know that I wasted so much energy bitching over such stupid things i.e a pair of shoes, not returning clothes. Meanwhile, others on here are having TRUE PROBLEMS i.e. a child being molested, a child sick w/ cancer. I cannot believe the way the two of you carry on.
Someone responded to a post mentioning that shopaholic never posts mean things on choc. Why would she need to, she baits her out, stating things she knows will piss choc off and choc feels she needs to defend herself.
I really feel sorry for Jayden. Here is a little boy, who is being fought over. "Where is your shoes? Where is your jacket? What did BM say? What did SM say? It never ends.... It goes on and on. This poor kid is caught in the middle of yall's cat fight and the DH is a coward because he doesn't make either of you stop and it is his son who suffers. Have all of you considered moving in together? That way all the clothes, shoes will be in the same household and then you can fight it out and not post about it here anymore!!!
I bet the DH kicks himself in the ass daily considering he divorced choc, remarried?? {or whatever)and he probably hears his exwife's name more now than before. Poor guy!!
I wish the both of you luck. Get some counceling, for all of you including your divided child, it sounds like yall need it. God knows we do after reading all those post.
I assume I speak for alot of us..... if not I know I speak loudly for myself!!!
I think the both of you should be suspended from this site due to the behavior and the negativity the two of you bring. If I wanted to get pissed off and annoyed I would call my SS's mom. But I try to limit the impact she has in my life. We all know that we are the problems in the others life i.e ME to BM and BM to ME. This will ever change. It is all in how mature we are when handling the problems that arrise. Please consider doing us all a favor and S T O P P O S T I N G !!!!!!!!!!!
Kim