Well I don't understand this at all but it just slays me that BM continuously takes those kids on road trips like every other weekend and BF just goes with the flow. We have to ask her for the kids and then she dictates when we are going to have them and for how long and if she changes her mind which she does quite frequently then we may not after setting this up. I think its just nuts. BF's sister is having a group birthday dinner party for his neice, his mom and me in two weeks. She asked if we would have the kids because all the other kids would be there and I said well we'll ask. Talked with BF and I'm not sure what the discussion was with BF but he comes back to say that she's taking them away again for the weekend in two weeks and that we can have them this weekend and part of next weekend! What the hell is part of next weekend??? and then the following weekend she's taking them away. Now if that were us asking to take them away it would not happen! I get so frustrated with BF because he's just so happy that she's letting him/us see them that he doesn't ever stand up to her. I don't want to fight with her either because it just hurts the kids but I hate the control she has......See there it is I hate the control she has, I guess that's my biggest beef today.
I guess I asnwered my own vent in that they don't have set visitations and this is exactly why she agreed to this because she gets to have total control and thats who she is and what she wants! Wow that sucks....