Good Morning I'm in a good place today and want to share the good that has happened. So BM was still a total bitch to me at hockey this past Sunday and I swear she tries to do things to not get us to come there and I explained to my BF what she said and did when we got home that night. I didn't do it to start trouble but just to let him know. I think for the first time I actually said it out of disbelief but more casual then heated. I also that day talked with him about getting his mom and sister and brother and kids together for a little birthday party for his son who turns 7 this week. He agreed! YA! and so I started the groundwork. I figure I'm moving forward and planning and if it happens awesome and if not then we'll have a lot of cake to eat I'm trying not to let it get to me I'm forging ahead. Anyway BF called and asked her right away if we could have the kids this weekend, because she took them away last weekend. She agreed. Then we had an awesome weekend together and have been able to talk more about things which brings me to last night. BF told me that he talked with the X that day about the kids and also said that he went off on her for about a half hour about how she's been treating me and us!!!! I almost fell off the bed, I was so happy I wanted to kiss him all over and jump up and down! He said that she fought him awhile and then agreed......okay so I know I'm not letting my guard down that easy and don't trust that she'll change but let me tell you the fact that he said something and that he stuck up for me and us together was so awesome. He says that things are good right now and lets see how it goes. He told her that we are having the birthday party for SS, which I have to say worries me a bite because it gives her all week to stew but like I said before I'm forging ahead and I'm going to let the chips fall where they may. (and yes I'll be crying in my soup on Sunday afternoon here if things don't happen the way I planned But again thank you for being here.
Well I wanted to come to the forum here and offer some good news for a change. Keeping my fingers crossed until Saturday! Have a great day everyone, today I'm grateful!