Well, in a surprising turn, my husband called biomom this morning after I called him at work and read him the blog from SD's site. He went out to his truck and called me back to call biomom and threatened her with lawsuit in regards to harassment and namecalling on SD's blogsite. She immediately buckled and will do anything to clear up the matter. SD was forced to apologize and is shutting down xanga site, and retracted entry on www.myspace.com.
If I have any further trouble, I will call biomom to alert her, if it is not taken care of, then I will contact an attorney. It's been a very stressful morning here. SD is still blaming me for her troubles with her father. She blames me b/c we left her behind in MD without telling her. Note that she had been estranged from us for over 6 months by that time. And not discussing the move was my husband's decision. She continued to blame her estrangement on me. I told her the reason her father wasn't talking to her was because of her behavior towards me. Previously, when she moved with her mother, she did not give us any new address, and we were forced to contact the police and go through the court system. We had made over 12 trips one weekend looking for them at their previous residence. Seems that everything is a double standard for SD. It's okay for her to screw us over but when the shoe is on the other foot, she doesn't like it.
Then, she's been abandoned.
I am mentally fried right now. I hope the rest of the weekend stays quiet.
Hope nothing like this happens to any of you.
Regards,
Sweetie