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Submitted by Sweetie on Thu, 06/15/2006 - 6:58pm

Well, it's back to the drawing board and today I found out that SD is much more brash on the cybernet. Things that many of you are worrying about are what my SD is actually doing. She has posted her picture on www.myspace.com and a long lengthy profile and now has started picking up invitations from older guys on the net. I just saw one from a 19 year old rocker, surfer dude from Denmark who tried successfully to pick her up yesterday. And when I went through some of the stuff on her site, I saw that the blog had not been deleted, just locked from public view. I sent biomom a note about stuff going on the website and my concerns but I don't know that I will get a reaction. I also asked again for the medical bills. I just addressed the website in general questions as the teens putting their pictures out there on the cybernet and basically accepting invitations from unknown people on the cybernet. Most likely if biomom addresses issue with SD, SD will fly off the handle, but hey, I can't even talk to my husband about this. And it's really bothering me a lot. I can't believe that SD would be so stupid. A few months ago biomom was going off that I was on SD's site and hadn't identified myself....and now, look and what SD is doing!!
We have already addressed to biomom that the websites are up for public view and accessible to the public. I just can't believe the amount of stupidity--between biomom and SD, their is so much idiocy it's got to be genetics!

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Submitted by Sherrylyn on Wed, 06/21/2006 - 6:42pm

Your SD has probally picked up many attitudes from biomom. Often children make poor decisions & if we can we need to stop them in their tracks & show them the error of their ways. It comes down to what she chooses to do. In leu of, or in spite of all advice.

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Submitted by Sweetie on Wed, 06/21/2006 - 6:57pm

Hi Sherrylyn,
I just can't believe that SD lacks common sense in picking up these idiots on the cybernet in the first place. I can't understand what would seem to be so exciting to be picking up strangers on the cybernet. You would think that you would be worried about someone getting your personal information....but it's like kids today have no fear of anything. They're so blatant, crass, immoral, and the list just goes on......I can barely believe it. What's really a kicker is that over the weekend, my husband was watching some clips of the Rocky Horror Picture Show on network TV and they were doing a write up about it, saying that it hadn't caught on until it started being played at midnight at the theaters. Of course, the makeup, sex behaviors, and everything was completely over the top, and people watched, thinking it was funny. It had some of the Gothic make up, and clothing, corsets, etc on the actors....but kids now think all that is great and for show wearing all that stuff. My SD does as much as she can for shock value to try and freak us out. Her behavior is so bizarre.....my husband saw her driving on the freeway and when she saw him she flipped out and started driving 90 miles and hour like a nut. This happened many times....You finally can't stand it anymore.....
What is wrong with these kids??????

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Submitted by Ronda on Wed, 06/21/2006 - 8:28pm

I blame part of the problem on too much exposure to sex. Children see it on videos, television shows, music, and think that is how they are supposed to relate to each other. Our daughter is not allowed to watch any sleazy videos or listen to r rated songs until she has a stronger sense of self.

I also think frank talk about sex, consequences such as disease and/or pregnancy helps a lot as well. All we can do in the end is arm our children with the best knowledge and pray that they walk the right path.

At least you are trying to help SD. Don't give up on her. She doesn't have enough life experience to know what is best for her. One day she will look back on all that she has done wrong and realize that one person tried to steer her in the right direction.

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Submitted by Sherrylyn on Thu, 06/22/2006 - 11:36am

Children 12 - 14 don't start at holding hands anymore, it's the make out. When my SS17 had GF14 they didn't out like to the movies or out to eat. All they wanted was to have time alone in the bedroom. I was not popular when I said no. Where is that spending time out with each other? They are so charged up on making out. Too bad they don't know what they're missing.