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Sweetie's picture

Let's see...looks like SD is trying to make me think I am losing my mind...has completed deleted the entire entry from wwwmyspace.com and someone has commented on her xanga comments. She's simply too much. But I'm glad to see that the entry on myspace.com is gone. Maybe biomom said something to her...who knows? But I'm glad that biomom had the guts to ask. At least, she took it seriously. It's a start. I can only hope that's how it came about. Sometimes you can sit and wish that something you say or write about your stepchild would sink in finally and really hit home about what she's done. And it saddens me that after almost four years later, it has made no impression on her, that her behavior caused this set of circumstances. And all I see is the writing in the note she wrote in the blog that she had done nothing to apologize for. It is very unfortunate that children grow up in a narcissistic environment and learn narcissistic behavior. As they never learn to be responsible or accountable for their mistakes. It's a very sad way to live, because you are so stubborn, you can't admit you're wrong, you never make amends, crisis' happen, people die, you lose people you love, and you never get to say goodbye. Sometimes the situations we live in are really sad and miserable.

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Sherrylyn's picture

Who knows what was the driving force to make her delete her entry, but at least it's gone. I hope biomom did have something to do with it. I hope it calms down with the hostility for everyone concerned.

Sweetie's picture

Hi Sherrylyn,
Thanks for your positive input! I'm just extremely frustrated and tired of having to be dissed all the time. No matter what I do, say, or write, it is always twisted. It's like a vicious cycle that never ends. Except that it like a big joke and the SK are laughing at me. The joke is always on me. Have you ever felt like the outsider like this?

Sherrylyn's picture

I showed up on the scene when the boys were quite young, 5 & 3, & both bioparents just left me to the job of raising their children. This left me with a very close bond between me & both of my SS's.

Though I am very certain that my name has been besmerched by the boys when I bring down the law. I tell them that it's okay to get it off their chests to a confidant, with the understanding that it is not a trash fest to anyone & everyone who will listen. Alas that is what you are facing because a blog is out there for everyone to see. Try to be strong.