I am beyond livid. BM was blowing up SO's phone to call SKids. Ok fine, we finished what we were doing and he had them call back when we got home. SO gives the phone to SS6 for him to call his mom. SS runs up with the phone to his room upstairs and shuts the door. In my head, I'm thinking ok, he usually stays in the room with dad, this is weird. SO is unphased and after a while goes to our room for a while. About 30 min go by...phone calls with BM usually last <10 min. I heard him open the door after a while and moving around upstairs, then vaguely overhear something like "my face is over your eyes" over the phone which Skids always have on speaker when they talk to BM. I realize they're face timing and I immediately go into the biggest NOOOPE mode. I go to find SO laying down and tell him that I don't need his SS going around our house with a camera. He realized he fucked up right away but g**damn I am pissed. It's enough the kids give play-by-plays about what happens in our house...most likely from the interrogating they get when they get back to BM. I don't need a literal camera and microphone going around my house for a virtual tour. I can't believe how unaware SO was and allowed that to happen. Holy invasion of privacy. Like BM doesn't do that enough. Ughhhh