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Health of a child

derb84123's picture
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We have several issues in our situation. (sks live with dH and I but visit bm eowe). She has been on sup. visits before. Some issues include contempt of court for not seeing the court ordered therapist, not paying medical bills, moving without notification- stuff like that. Other issues include pas, inappropriate conversations with kids, things like that. But most importantly is the lack of concern for the health of my stepdaughter. She has a condition that requires medication every day, but can be irritated by certain triggers. All parties know what the triggers are. But BM keeps allowing SD around this stuff and she is returned in horrible health nearly every visitation. There is zero communication. DH will send an email asking about it all- why was she around X- and BM will just blow up talking about something random having nothing to do with SDs health.

Anyway, any advice on health and court? Obviously doctors notes of the condition and what not to be around, that type of thing. But how do we prove, other than emails, that BM is doing this repeatedly?

EvilWickedSM's picture

I'm sorry to hear SD is going through this. I don't have any input except to maybe start taking photos or videos of SD when she comes back from BM's....something with a date/time stamp....if the issues are something visible that can be documented that way.

derb84123's picture

we discussed this last night, we could definitely video it. I hate to have to do that, but I think we may.