I'm with you. My husband hasn't left but if he did of course it would be my fault no matter what he did, according to his kids and family. I was just saying this yesterday and wondering if I had a "kick me in the back" sign posted on my back or something. I too am so fed up with all the lies, all the misinterpretations of anything I say or do, tired of being blamed, tired of all the hostility. Just flat out done with it all!