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Submitted by crazyabtyou69 on Mon, 06/25/2012 - 1:17pm

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hey everyone, Im at a crossroads on wondering what to do. My husband now was married 8 years. they have a little girl together. He left her. right after the divorce we got together we havebeen together 1 yr. we have a new baby. he has put her before me. he said he does it to keep the peace. i pulled his phone bill. he talks to her alot soemtimes for 10 mins. he called her the day my baby was born and talked awile just bec she wouldnt let him have his kid. doesnt this seem strange. he said he loves me and wants to make it work but i have asked him over and over to quit talking to her behind y back. he always takes up for her. he treated me like shit when i was pregnant. what do i do?

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Submitted by New second wife... on Mon, 06/25/2012 - 1:25pm

RUN>>>

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Submitted by herewegoagain on Mon, 06/25/2012 - 3:13pm

You have been together for a year and have a baby? He left the woman and was able to get a divorce in about 3 months? Am I missing something? Surely this can't be the way you write it out.

Anyway, good luck. You can't get involved with a man so quickly after a "divorce" and think that he's moved on. Not going to happen. He never really divorced her but on paper...the ink wasn't even dry yet...

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Submitted by stormabruin on Mon, 06/25/2012 - 4:10pm

He's made HER a priority through your entire relationship, has secret conversations with her behind your back & treats you like shit & your question is what do you do???

As has been pointed out, the ink on their divorce couldn't have been dry before you & him hooked up. He's made it clear he isn't done with her.

Let her have him. File for support & focus on making a life for you & your baby.

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Submitted by Orange County Ca on Mon, 06/25/2012 - 7:27pm

You can't have sex over the phone. Is he gone long enough without adequate explanation? By all means read that book. Ex sex is best they say.

He's treating you poorly and I hope if you move on you don't have yet another child in an attempt to solidify a family - that's the wrong reason to have a kid.

He's not going to change so you'll have to decide if you want to put up with this for the rest of your life or add another child to the list of broken home children.