When we have an OK weekend I feel like its a win at this point in life.

SD13 was better then she has been, of course headphones in ignoring me for the 1st day. By day two water baloon fight like the old kid.   When she left I text her to tell her how much we enjoyed having her over this weekend. I am thinking its an age thing and maybe her home life sucks so she is mad at the world.

SD10 came over, we had her birthday party with BM there. BM decided that counseling is not needed. Me and her talked (DH doesn't like to pry into peoples life even if it involves his kids its strange.).   I told her that its only going to get worse when baby gets here. SD is not going to want to go to school is BM and baby are home all day long alone together.  So maybe counseling now will help so its not so much stress when baby comes. But BM is avoiding it, my mother thinks maybe SD has been abused and BM is hiding it. (my mom is a teacher is a very low income area she sees alot of this. she said that may not be in but there are a bunch of signs. She says not to worry about it but just make sure counseling is done incase. My mom doesnt want to call BM out on it but she thinks it wouldnt hurt to check.)

SD10 had a blast she didnt want to leave, but the moment BM said you should stay here one night SD started to cry. It was very strange. DH told her to calm down she didnt have to any time soon, that it would be ok. ( I was proud of him he is one of those people when some one crys he freaks out and has no idea what to do besides act like he doesnt notice lol) I did notice she still needs a lot of attintion, a hey watch me do this and this and this kind of kid.  She can't ride the four wheeler (its kids safe) more then 10 feet from us becuase she wants us to watch. While SD13 is out in the back yard ripping it like a wild child ( i do like that she isnt scared of a little mud or dirt).

So now DH is calling around today trying to figure out what steps are needed to atleast have an evalution completed on SD10, BM is acting like all problems are fixed now that DH is sticking to the counseling plan some what.  She wants to fix it on her own first, then if it is not she will take her. I honestly think she BM is hiding something at this point.