What has BM said/done that left you speechless

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So, I was wondering, with all the venting about BM's here, what has the BM in your life done (could be more than one thing, I know mine does something weekly) to make you just shake your head in disbelief.

For me it is BM's insistance that the world take care of her, but to break it down to the most recent specific... BM not only continues to beg FDH to give her his SUV (I have a little compact two door car, he has a pick up and an SUV that were his since befor he was with me), saying that she deserves it and it is his fault that she can't come and get SS5 like she's supposed to because he won't give her HIS car, but she recently found out that FDH is renting out the trailer house he owns because he has moved in with me, and she came unglued because he wouldn't give her the trailer house!

She found out he was renting it and she called him furious, stating he should not only give her the SUV, but that he should give her the trailer as well, because she is the mother of his child, she doesn't have a car, she can't afford her apartment, and he needs to take care of her. Since we have a house and we both have cars of our own we should give her the extra car and the trailer because some how FDH owes her for birthing SS5. Sorry to repeat myself, but I am still trying to wrap my mind around her doing this. When he told her she could have the trailer if she could pay the full asking price cash up front and pay to have it moved, and that he would sell her the compact car for Blue Book value, also cash up front, she had a bigger hissy fit. Of course, she was supposed to buy a car when she got her income tax return, but, do you thing she has done that? Oh noooo. She needs someone to give her one.

I am like, "Oh, I am so sorry Lazy McCrazy Pants BM, but no one told you to go live in a homeless shelter for a year and not work. No one told you to get a two bedroom apartment you can't afford. You did all that on your own, so please feel free to get a house and a car on your own"

LMAO Bookishworm - i think i

LMAO Bookishworm - i think i just peed in my pants!!!!!!!!!! :jawdrop:

Where do I start?? Told me

Where do I start??

Told me that my DH still "cares about" her and that someday they will be back together. (after I had been with him for more than 3 years)

Accused my daughter, who was 3yo at the time, of inappropriately touching SS.

Told DH that we should "buy her an apartment" because we "make good money".

Called my phone and asked to speak to "her husband".

Walked in to my house, and up my stairs in to SS's bedroom.

Wandered around the upstairs of my house until I found her standing in my bedroom doorway.

Came to my work to drop paperwork off to me, noticed we were having a lunchoen and asked if she could make herself a plate.

I am sure I will think of more...

Well... they were still

Well... they were still "legally married" (ok ok, throw all the tomatoes you want at it, it happened) so she liked calling him that up until the DAY their divorce was final (4 years later). My response to her "I'm sorry, who is this? You must have the wrong number"...click... She was MAD.

OMG, LOL. What are u supposed

OMG, LOL. What are u supposed to do, have some kind of ESP device installed in your brain? That is stupid.

LOL. I've been using it for

LOL. I've been using it for our BM for weeks. It fits SOOO many of our situations, doesn't it? If these crazy bitches would get JOBS maybe they'd have less time to be psycho.

OMG, you have to be the SM

OMG, you have to be the SM that that weirdo was talking about a couple of weeks ago "Goddess-revealed". She was a yoga instructor, her daughter was 9, she collected cs and alimony and was upset that it wasn't enough to buy the house she wanted and her dh's new wife was too good to her daughter!

it was titled "i'm a bm and

it was titled "i'm a bm and i'm NOT the problem!" but it's gone now. she probably took it down and deleted her account.

did you help your sd make a

did you help your sd make a mother's day gift for her? because that was something she was furious over. how dare another woman spend time making something with HER daughter!

oh it happens. they do it to

oh it happens. they do it to start fights and tell us how evil and wrong they are. they don't last long. }:)

I bet it was her! She got her

I bet it was her! She got her ass reamed. there were like 200 posts on it and everyone told her she was crazy. She kept saying she wasn't jealous and that her daughter was perfect and loved her but she hated the SM simply because the SM was nice to her kid and she forbid the dh and the sm to come to the halloween party. She was insane!

I'm so going to steal that

I'm so going to steal that nickname!

told me that being a widow

told me that being a widow (me) was MUCH EASIER than being divorced (her) because it's more difficult to recover when it's the LOVE that dies rather than the PERSON.

WTF

@@ BSgoinon -- I have encountered BM wandering in my house TWICE (note: MY house, not my DH's, not previously hers). She actually had the audacity to go over to my Navajo pottery collection, pick them up and turn them over looking at them. Another time, I walked out of my bedroom (upstairs) to find her opening doors and looking around.

Yep, my house too. DH moved

Yep, my house too. DH moved in with me. In fact just the other day I had framed pictures of the kids propped up against the wall in my entry way. SS's was in the middle so it was blocked a little by my DD's picture. She saw them from the front door, when I turned to call SS down from his bedroom she squeezed in the door and started pulling his picture out to see it. I just gently grabbed it out of her hand and put it back where I had it, and started talking about SS. THE NERVE.

Told DH that SS was not

Told DH that SS was not allowed to hug me, he was 1 year old.

Told DH that I was having an affair with my boss (who was also HIS boss, and NO I was not)

Told me that marijuana was her "little white pill" and there is nothing wrong with smoking weed when SS is around. And that DH needs to "remember where he came from, he used to smoke pot alllll of the time". Yeah, he was 18, not 30... and NOT a father.

Told me that she was cheating on her BF with his friend. And that his friend gave her an STD. :sick:

Told me that that she hopes she gave this STD to some guy that slept with her once and disappeared. :sick:

Told me that she had an abortion when she was 23 because she was pregnant by another guy and she knew DH would leave her if he found out. :sick:

OMG, this is awful. How does

OMG, this is awful. How does someone do this to their kids

I know SS5's BM has him call his daddy at least ten times a day when she has him and anytime FDH doesn't answer on the first ring she tells SS5 that daddy doesn't love him enough to answer the phone....

BM told us, in front of SD

BM told us, in front of SD when she was 8, that if she didn't "shape up" she was going to ship her off to a convent and "let someone else deal with her."
Of course, she wouldn't send her to US, because she'd lose her precious CS and may have had to pay it!

I have one about

I have one about SD17.......

Her and her father were in a huge fight because the neighbors went out of town and she was to water all their flowers and the garden and take care of the dogs. She had put it off for three days making her brother go do it. Well she was gone all day on the last day so SO got all pist off (neighbors are good friends) so he went over to do it. She came over huffing and puffing over something totally different and he laid into her about responsibility etc and how they are our friends and she made a promise and she had not done as she said. A huge fight escalated and I took her out of the situation. Asked her if she wanted to go for a drive. Since they were screaming so loud all the neighbors could hear.

In the car she said to me:

My daddy is not mad at me (she is 17) he is mad at you and YOUR daughter. I looked at her like are you freaken kidding me? Then she said.......

This is what happened with his ex girlfriend (the only ex girlfriend he has besides her crazy ass mom) he wanted to break up with her, didn't want to be with her anymore but took it out on me. I'm so sorry to tell you this but my dad wants to break up with you."

That was the last car ride I ever took her on. That was the last nice thing I ever did for her.

are you engaged or married

are you engaged or married now? what did dh say about this and what was sd's reaction when she figured out that you weren't going anywhere? i think it was when sd19 figured out that i wasn't going anywhere that she decided to just let her true colors come thru. couldn't continue to try to pretend to be normal anymore. or maybe she was trying to chase me away. she damn near did. i think that's why that to this day, she is completely convinced that i owe her something since i'm with her dad. bless her stupid little heart, even at 19 she doesn't understand that my relationship with her dad has and hever has had anything to do with her!

Our problem is more what she

Our problem is more what she DOESN'T say

Ours let DH find out about SS's court cases:
1) when he got served
2) when he called the court about the first one, there was a second he didn't know about

- didn't get SS his medicine for a burn and he ended up with pneumonia
- knew he was a raging alcoholic but didn't say anything when SS came to live with us--let us find out the hard way (he's back with her)

OMG. Well, at least SS5's BM

OMG. Well, at least SS5's BM just sees me as someone else to mooch off of. Never thought I'd be grateful for that

When DH and I started dating

When DH and I started dating BM offered to have a threesome with us. Yep.

she moved clear across the

she moved clear across the country to be with her son's father, who abandoned her son, and whom she hadn't seen in years. just up and left with her son and dumped her wretched daughter on us (me).

7 1/2 years of exposure to

7 1/2 years of exposure to BM..you have all day to read the things she has done to make me speechless? rofl

she hired a private detective to have me followed..just because.
she would sit outside of my house at night ...just because.
she would pop in at my house on holidays and during family gatherings,sit in the driveway and cry until exH's mommy would run out to console her.
if sd had a recital or concert my dumbass exH would leave BM in charge of reserving seats..my seat somehow always ended up being separate from the rest of the family.

that's just the tip of the crazy iceburg;-)

There are so many because she

There are so many because she is soooo psycho.

Years ago she actually did harm to SD and told DH it wouldn't have happened if he had just come back to her (SHE had kicked him out, for the third time). I was very worried about this one but when he stood his ground she did not try it again.

She did, however, threaten to harm herself. Well, go ahead.

She once told DH that they were bonded forever because of SD (the very reason she had her in the first place). DH told her, wrong, when CS is done, I NEVER have to talk to you again. She hung up on him. CS is now done and BM has called DH once (to get his help in breaking up SD & her husband) and DH said, "I have nothing to say to you. She hung up on him.

Over the years, many things were said and done that are just unbelievable. What is so incredible is, she didn't want him, she cheated on him, she kicked him out and she has been married a couple of times since they divorced but she is still pissed that he did not go back to her, tail between his legs (even though she really didn't want him). And, of course, she blames me (told SD that I stole him). I confess, I did. I broke in, in the middle of the night, all dressed in black, stuffed him in a pillowcase and out the door I went.

She will always be pissed that her plan to manipulate him forever by having his kid, did not work. Oh, and she taught the daughter to be the same way.

what the hell is wrong with

what the hell is wrong with people? my ex told me that he knows i will always love him because we have a child together. :O a child that i have raised since birth by myself. a child that he doesn't even know beyond her name and to say hi if she's at his mother's and he is there. a child that he has never done anything in any way, shape or form for.

i was happy to tell him that my daughter is exactly that-MY DAUGHTER. NOT an extension of him. i told him i can love her without loving him because she is a totally seperate person and my relationship with her has nothing to do with him. f'g idiot.

"She once told DH that they

"She once told DH that they were bonded forever because of SD" OMG, this sounds like my exmother-in-law. She told me, constantly, how exH and I were joined together forever because of our son, at least until I cut her out f mine and my bio-son's life for good. My exH never wanted a baby, he just thought that having a baby would mean I wouldn't leave him.

I know, right? An egg met up

I know, right? An egg met up with a sperm during sex. BFD, happens everyday. Get over yourself, your not that special. I chose not to have children and guess what? DH and I are together (16 yrs) because we WANT to be. He does for me because he WANTS to and he LOVES me, not because I squeezed out his kid to hold over his head forever.

Ha ha thanks for the laugh I

Ha ha thanks for the laugh I needed that, your comment is sooooooooooooooo true

Well first she filed abuse

Well first she filed abuse papers with CYS against me. All lies. That left me in disbelief because I know how I treat my kids and hers!! And second, when I became pregnant with my and DH child, when she finally found out about it she called him and said "I guess this means there really is no chance for us." She will do whatever she can to break us up!

After often babysitting Bm's

After often babysitting Bm's daughter often at short notice on my own, for 2 yrs, the one time I cannot do it she called me a lier and showed up 90 mins late after I volunteered to take care of Sd6 for her, needless to say I will never help her again, Im a nice person and helped her in the interest of good relations, no more lie ins for her and she won't be able to whore herself around as much anymore imao

Here's another one. Years

Here's another one. Years ago, hubby (then boyfriend) would not return ex-wife's calls so she calls his family member and says "He has to call me, I just found out our divorce is not final".
Ok, so why should he call you? Are you the judge that can finalize it? The court clerk that can file it? What?
Hubby called County Records and sure enough, there was no problem with the divorce papers at all.

Another phone call, "You need to move back in so I can check myself into a center and get help for my mental issues". Bitch, there is not enough medication or shock therapy that can help you with your mental issues. Nice try, though. Next.