Another poop/pee/diaper post
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I posted this on my blog and I thought I would post it here as well:
I know there are a couple SM's here that have had to resort to putting the SKIDS back in diapers at night (I am one of them) but how many of you had your SO's backing? I got to the point where I didnt care what DH thought because I was the one washing and I was the one dealing with the smell NOT HIM! Never in a million years did I expect to have an 8 year old that still wears diapers to bed! AND....BM still sticks to her excuse that she is ONLY 8 and that she will outgrow it when she is ready! And when will that be?? When she is 15? 16? Hello!!! Get a grip already!
Katie
sd13 stopped wetting the bed
sd13 stopped wetting the bed at night at age 12. what she will do now is piss her floor, or she will piss in cups and put them on the shelf in her closet.
bf used to tell me how sd might have soemthing wrong with her and thats why she pisses at night. he never took her to the dr to check it out. i think its just she was a classic skid case and needed attention and was rebellious.
she pisses in cups and keeps
she pisses in cups and keeps the cups in her closet??? WTF??? :jawdrop:
yeah...its disgusting. we
yeah...its disgusting. we have gone thru so many cups cause of this. we make her scrubbed them clean then throw them away.
HOLY CRAP that is
HOLY CRAP that is disgusting!
Wow.... :?
What's DH gonna do if you
What's DH gonna do if you present him the option...either he washes the sheets, or skid is in diapers, cause you're not going to do it anymore!
Well the big issue with that
Well the big issue with that Dee is that DH usually leaves around 5 in the morning and there is no way he can do it then so the sheets would have to wait till he got home later in the day. There is NO way I am allowing those sheets to stink up either her room or the laundry room. I also got to the point and told SD that if she didnt care that she wet the bed then I dont care if she wears diapers. When SHE stops wetting the bed, then SHE wont have to wear diapers. Its as simple as that right?
Katie
Put them in a plastic garbage
Put them in a plastic garbage bag and set them outside or in the garage in a garbage bag. Then, when DH gets home, he can deal with them.
Where there is a will, there is a way.
I would let her shit and piss
I would let her shit and piss her sheets every night. Then, each morning, I would put the sheets in DH's car so that he is forced to take care of them.
Sorry, I am not touching her
Sorry, I am not touching her pissed on sheets anymore. I have done it long enough and I told her I am never doing it again. If it was once in a while fine, no problem, accidents happen but...when she knows she has to go and is too lazy to get out of bed, I am done.
Katie
SD10 (next week 11) slept on
SD10 (next week 11) slept on her boxsprings last night. FDH discoverd that she had been pissing on her mattress without the mattress cover on it. He also discovered pee soaked clothes and sheets hidden under the sink in her bathroom and closet. The mattress is in the garage and he swears he's throwing it away. We'll see what really happens. This is the first time that he actually made her sleep without a mattress.
He made mention of taking her to the dr to be checked out (I've suggested this for years). I was so angry after the whole episode that I responded with, "I don't think the doctor will say there's a physical cause for hiding sheets and dirty clothes under the sink for weeks."
I'm so sick of smelling piss that I want to scream. And, SS17 left his clothes and blankets on the floor in his closet for a week after we had a sump pump malfunction so the downstairs stinks to high heavens too. They are wrecking my house and I want to make all of them sleep in the garage! Ugh.
I feel better now...sorry to hijack your post.
omg... she needs help if she
omg... she needs help if she pees in cups and saves it...