Inappropriate Behavior from SD19
Okay - another drama is ensuing.
I'm noticing that my SD is quite the hanger-oner.
To her father. She is 19, pregnant and engaged. But the one man she hangs on to most is her father. Hugs all over him..for example, we go to a restaurant she will sit close to him while we wait on a table and then almost lie on top of him, wanting him to cradle her almost. There I stand by myself while her fiance stands next to me - both alone.
Okay ......
And can we talk about the word "DADDY"??? Oh my God..if I hear that 1 more time I am going to scream. Especially the way she does it......
"DADDDDDDDDDDDDDDDYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY"
Can someone just shoot me in and get it over with?? Geesh...grow the hell up!
A couple of weeks ago my DH's son got hurt and had to go to the hospital. His son's girlfriend was there..she sat down close to my DH and his daughter was sitting there as well. She told the girlfriend 'Go get your own daddy'.
My DH actually told the girlfriend she didn't have to move...LOL!! Great one!
I watched my "19 YEAR OLD" SD get up and walk out of the hospital lobby.........crying.....like someone had stolen her binky.
Good Lord Almighty!!
What a crybaby!
She then treated my DH like shit for over an hour due to that little tantrum. I almost expected her to drop to the floor and try to suck on her own nipple like the baby she is carrying....and is due in 3 months...will be doing....
Can we all say "Time to Grow the *&^% Up?" in unison??
My God!
:jawdrop:
Wow.... have you noticed her
Wow.... have you noticed her being like this all the time? Is it maybe because she is pregnant? Wow.... it scares me on what my SD11 will do when she is a teen! :O
Have you pointed out to him her behavior? Have you tried to sit next to him first? I have to admit, I talked to my BF about it and he started to make sure we both got time with him some. He will move her for me. Then again, she is 11, I could see where 19 would be different.
I hope it gets better when she is married and not at your home I hope.
oh dear, she has some major
oh dear, she has some major major issues... she is 19 for christs sake. I cant believer she behaves like that. Is your DH embarrassed by her behaviour? I think you should record her on video and then just happen to play it when she is with you one day so she can have a good look at herself
My wife was a 16yo single
My wife was a 16yo single teen mom. When she found out she was pregnant, bay all accounts she grew up over night.
Your SD needs a foot up her ass and someone to give her the come to Jesus talk about growing up and taking responsibility for herself and her child.
Good for your DH for calling her on her rude behavior to the GF of his Son. I would have told the little brat that I was at the hospital for my Son and if she could not treat the people that care for him with respect she could leave until she could behave as an adult rather than a spoiled brat.
I have zero tolerance for that kind of crap.
Best regards,
wow. wow. wow. wtf. go get
wow. wow. wow. wtf. go get your own daddy? what?
i don't even know how to respond to this. have you talked to him about it? i would totally have to; there's no way i could hold it in.
wow.
Yes - she is that..immature
Yes - she is that..immature and controlling.
Yep - talked to my hubby about it all too. He KNOWS she's like this - he only chooses to speak up when he feels it's convenient at the time. This is why it's happened most of her teenage life.
She's a very emotional woman - VERY. Every little thing is taken so serious and emotional to her that she can play it up like nobody's business. And most of the time he plays right into her hand. On the times that he doesn't - WATCH OUT. It's screamfest 2010 around here. I have seen him so livid at her he threatens to never let her darken our doorstep again. I've seen him so mad at her that he tells her she's just like her mother and holds nothing back. Which - if you knew her mother that is the worst insult you could ever give anyone.
And most of it is where he tells her to grow up and stop being so childish..she goes off the deep end and they go at it.
I have a 19 year old daughter as well...if my daughter acted this way, she and I would have MANY problems. And I have told him that with no uncertainty. I have told him that for her OWN good it has to stop..the only man she should be hanging on is her fiance..not her father. People do not wish to see a grown woman hanging on her father like she's a lover or a small child. I know I don't and I sure don't want people around me to see it.
She's a lovable woman - she truly is. She just hasn't reached a point where she knows where to take that love and use it to her best ability - and that's towards her upcoming child and her fiance.
And I look at my husband for being part of the reason she doesn't have that point reached.
You all know what the saddest part is? I truly care about this girl..I do! I want her to succeed in life and have a good relationship with her baby..and there are times when it's just she and I - it's great! But it's because I don't put up with the childish behavior..I just don't condone a grown person acting in the way she does with her father.
Now if I could just get him to realize this.... :jawdrop: