SD wants to hangout with me during Xmas break
This is what BM told DH last week. SD is already on break and I work all week then have off until the 2nd. I don't mind if she would rather be at our house because it's more quiet and organized than BM's and my girlfriend has a 13 year daughter and we may all get pedicures one day.
Thoughts? DH will work all week after Xmas including Saturday. It's just so funny how stingy BM used to be with her precious parenting time but now allows SD to pretty much stay with us whenever.
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The purpose of visitation is
The purpose of visitation is so that the child spends time with the other bio parent. Your DH should really follow what the CO states. If he won't be there, SD technically shouldn't be there either. I know you say you don't mind but give a BM an inch and they'll take 7,342,989 miles and complain she couldn't take more. You could find yourself with SD more often than not.
That's my concern. While I
That's my concern. While I don't mind, I still like to walk around half naked and sleep in. SD can entertain herself but I don't know how much time she will want to stay. She'd rather live with us but MOTY would never allow it. She's a good enough kid but I don't want to be running around for playdates or anything like that.
Pick some days you plan to
Pick some days you plan to enjoy your holiday time, and let her know you deserve some free days too.
Very good idea. I don't mind
Very good idea. I don't mind a day or two here and there but not a whole week and a half when DH is working!
Maybe the one day you were
Maybe the one day you were going to do something with the friend and her daughter, but why should BM get out of parenting her own kids?
I will be home most of the
I will be home most of the time because I need to deep clean and get some quality time with my pups. BM will work most/ all of the break so SD would just be with GBM and her baby brother.
Extra time with the skids?
Extra time with the skids? Lolololol.
No. Just: NO.
The skids are there to be with their bio parent. Whenever BM wanted to give IPOD-H MORE time with SS, you can bet she didnt want SS around. She had better things to do.
Bet you BM needs a free baby-sitter in that week and you are it.
I thought it was funny BM
I thought it was funny BM told DH that because she'll always be the last to admit that SD would rather be with us.