They didn't have room at the local hospital so they are sending her 3 hours south for a 3-5 day eval. She is backtracking, saying she's fine, and is in disbelief she's being treated like she's suicidal with zero contact with the outside world and can't go to her friend's party this weekend.

We have decided to not go back home for the family party and just fly SD up for her 2 week break. Nobody is giving DH an answer on the dates that work for them, and the weekend the break starts is BM's birthday (I don't give a damn) but am sure she'll cry about it so I told DH he needs to figure out times that work for them. I also think BM is mad that SD will have to fly alone both ways as she's never done it before.

Friday was SD's bday and guess who had to call DH? Yep, BM. We provide SD with a cell phone but BM called DH to "reminisce" or some shit. DH missed her call and texted that he'd call her back.

She replied with something like "just wanted to thank you for giving me SD and yada yada 'we'll' call you after school". She never called back and DH talked to SD but wth?

I interviewed and shadowed this morning and got the offer less than 2 hours after leaving! This job is in UT where my mom lives and where we want to move. It pays $6.50 more than my hospital was offering me for FT and I can't feel more blessed! However..