I didn't bring SD up all day yesterday and we had a really nice day with our friends. Normally we have SD this week and our friends kept asking about her and we just kept saying that since the 50/50 wasn't official, BM retracts it when she wants and we obviously didn't bring the investigation up. 

DH isn't meeting the CPS investigater until tomorrow but BM called him this afternoon to pry about it. They told BM to not let SD see DH until the investigation is over and DH was supposed to meet with the guy today. They did interview SD at school and she told them that DH punched multiple holes in the wall on Thanksgiving which is NOT true. He is beyond appalled that SD would say this and for the time being, she isn't allowed in our home, complete investigation or not.

And BM was not bothered one bit by SD's Instagram posts, by the way.

I asked DH briefly about the incident this morning and he said he is meeting with the investigator on Friday morning and left it at that. He said he is allowed to discipline his kid and has nothing to hide. Is it this simple? He didn't mention the guy having to come to our house. I left it because DH wasn't thrilled and I knew an arguement would ensue if I continued to pry.

Seeing new movies without her. Yep, you read that right. We couldn't see The Grinch tonight because SD was afraid to see it with DH and me because MOTY, the woman who gives her daughter the silent treatment constantly, has made SD feel bad for it in the past. Now when SD knows BM must be the first to see a certain movie with SD, she won't watch it with us or keeps it from her mom. She has even asked DH to not tell BM that we saw a certain movie so that BM doesn't get upset with her.