As an extension of my last post, SD came over last night for our (assumed) "week on" and told us that she has an ortho appointment for her braces tomorrow at 4pm. She also has the "meet your teachers" event from 2-4 so DH has to take her to that. 

I told him to be non-confrontational and just ask when and how SD is getting to him today. She is with GBM at BM's since there isn't summer camp the week before school which starts the 20th. 

He simply asked "when can I expect to get SD today"? He isn't expecting an answer because it is so straight forward that BM doesn't know how to respond now. She normally can call/ text at work so it's obvious she's ignoring him. Of course, he hasn't heard back and it's been almost an hour.

DH came home early to make enchiladas for dinner with me. Yum! Anyway, he checks his phone and said he got a message from BM asking if they can have a "civil conversation". 

I quickly told him to RECORD any phone convos or only email and text. He knows that she will not see his side so it's pretty much going to be a lost cause either way. She sees him as a paycheck, always has, always will.

He said if anything, he'll tell her to go to his shop to talk in person. He knows she can't be big and bad to his face but I told him to NOT FORGET TO RECORD EVERY WORD SAID!

"Hi. Are you going to be home around 11? SD was wondering if she could come by and grab her books?"

SD got books for her bday to complete the set she's reading. She obviously forgot to take them to BM's this past week and I assume GBM is going to bring her by. DH has a feeling that BM won't allow him to take SD on Monday for his week. I forwarded this to him but he hasn't responded on what I should do.