Hey guys! I am back again It turns out that the reason sd wasnt returning dh's calls was because bm's current dh took the phone when bm left him for her current bf. When bm asked him about seeing her kids (the ones she has with him) he told sd that she needed to call her dad. Ok, sounds legit so we worried for nothing right?

Wellllll, sd had a hair appt today so dh brought her home last night. He said sd, bm, and gbm were acting weird at pickup, asking dh if he wanted to come in. He was pressed for time so he declined.

This morning I awoke to every light on in the house. Weird. I shut them off at bedtime. My spidey sense goes off and i go look for the tablet we had confiscated months ago. It was hidden in my closet and it was gone. Drawers had been dug through.

I called dh to see if he brought it to work and he said no, but the 4 year old was playing with it a few days ago. Fairly certain I had put it away but i will reserve judgement for now.

I act normal and drop sd off to her appt, then come home to look for the tablet. I ask the 4 yr old if he knows where it is and he says sure, and takes me to my closet where i hide it on the top shelf. Not there. I look thru sd's bag and lo and behold there is the tablet. I powered it up and she texted her mom and bf last night after we were asleep. Bm asked if she asked her dad yet? And sd responded no she was too scared to and maybe she would ask him tomorrow (about moving to bf town with bm).

I also found she took my perfume, some other toiletries of mine, and a pair of diamond earrings my mother gave me! I called dh and let him know what i found. I said at this point i am ready to just let her go with bm to bf town. Dh felt sd was purposely doing this for that exact reaction and he would deal with her tonight.

So change of plans, bm isnt going out of town after all so sd wanted bm to come pick her up after the hair appt. Sd called dh to ask and he asked her about the tablet and she said she asked the 4 year old where it was and he showed her. I do not know what dh said to that. He wanted to know if i wanted to ask her about the earrings while i was on the phone with him ( and driving) i said no i would rather we all do this in person.

So even though sd knew that i knew about her taking the tablet, she said not one word. She came to tell me bye when her mom arrived. Dh thinks if sd is too scared to bring up the subject of the move to him then she ultimately wont and we just just let it go for know, at least until there is a reason to worry.

I dont know what to feel, but I do feel pissy that sd came in to clean us out and dh felt something this big can just be delt with over the phone.

Thanks for any advice or thoughts yall may have for me!