I got married 4 years ago, my husband has two kids from previous relationship(they were never married), everything was good so we decided to have our own kid. His ex used to bother once in a while, you know those messages lying but I didn't listen, she also threatened him with the kids and all that drama. I didn't have any problem with his kids coming to stay at our house whenever their mother let them. Two years after our marriage (two years ago) she dropped the kids at our house with all their stuff and never came back to picked them up, since then my life became a nightmare, they were 6 and 8 y/o and I have to raise them myself plus my baby, I hate living like this, I cannot do anything or go do something because I have to take his kids with me, nobody in her family wants to watch the kids, nobody in my husband family want to help watch them, I have no help, my family lives in a different country . I always feel myself and my daughter left aside, everybody always gives them more attention than my daughter because they don't have a mother, I have done a lot for those kids since helping them with their homework, wash their clothes, cook their food, get them ready for bed and school. I work from home and watching three kids doesn't gives me much time to work. I feel alone, I don't have any comprehension from my husband everytime I try to tell him how I feel, he calls me a dramatic. His mother always buys presents for the two kids and leaves my daughter watching and it hurts me but she says it's because they don't have a mother and my daughter has one who can buy her stuff. I sometimes feel like divorcing my husband, I feel that I would be better without that burden anymore, but I feel like a bad person and don't want to be like their mother. Every time I tell them to do something, they go and ask their father if they have to do that like if my word doesn't matter. I am 26 years old and I want to go out, have fun with my husband, I want to live my life because you only live once, I'm tired of being at home all the time, he doesn't care about going out and having fun anymore. I don't even know how long it will last.