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I am do frustrated. I would like to spank my ss. Ugh!@@

rlock12's picture

We are having problems with my as going outside of our house and telling people my children and my personal business. We have done everything from grounding him, taking things away, and making him stay home when we do fun things but nothing helps.

This is not like its the first time it happened . It's happened four times in the last month and a half. At first it has been he was telling personal stuff about my 10 year-old daughter like she has to shave her leg and she has hair under her arm. He also went around telling everyone she couldn't get in the pool at the summer program because she gets diarrhea when she drinks milk.

Tonight he went to church and told everyone out loud in front of everyone that we was homeless. It's like his out to make a fool of me and my children. We have talked to him, taken things and grounded him but he still does it. I need help because I don't feel comfortable in my own house. I'm afraid of having our personal stuff out in public again. I told his dad tonight if he doesn't displine him I'm not staying because I need to feel comfortable at home and my girls do too.

Please if you have a creative way to handle this please let me know. Because his dad asked me what we needed to do. I'm not sure but I might just spank the kid next time.

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WTF...REALLY's picture

Next time your at church tell everyone he is gay and you support it but its so sad since his dad said his pecker is about 2", inverted.

rlock12's picture

Yes he does it to my daughter who is the same age as him. He does it to embarrass her or to get other kids to make fun of her. Usually my daughter comes home crying because he said something and the kids make fun of her.

furkidsforme's picture

I think most kids do this, especially boys, so just get creative. The more he knows it gets to you, the more he will do it.

And are you homeless? Because if it is a blatant lie, I'm not sure why it upsets you so much. If you live with DH but he is telling people at church you are homeless, I would just say really loudly "Nice dreams, short stuff, but DH and I are married and live with you now so you will have to try harder to get rid of me" and laugh.

rlock12's picture

No I was a couple of years prior to meeting my husband now. I got real sick but it's something that we don't want said.

nunya1983's picture

My dd is super nosey, a big time eaves dropper. She doesn't go around telling people my business, but she does eaves drop. Any time I catch her listening in, I take away a priveledge.

Perhaps that would work, but also instruct your kids not to tell ss anythinganythanything they don't want shared with the world. And I would do the same.

We can't tell SD anything that we don't want BM no know because we know that she will likely tell BM. Mostly because kids in general have a feeling of loyalty to their BMs and the bad BM's use this to their advantage.

rlock12's picture

We took the Xbox and are making him stay home from all activities this week. Do you think it would be wrong for me to tell him if he can't be nice that he can stay home with bm when we go on vacation?