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SS has to everything my daughter does

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Submitted by rlock12 on Wed, 09/02/2015 - 11:37am

Ss and my daughter are in the same grade at school. They have some classes together. They do band together. They go to church together. My daughter wanted to do academic team so he wanted to do that also. So now they do academic team together. He follows her and her friends around the playground. She is to the point she wants her own space and hobbies. My daughter started making survivor bracelets to sell he wants in on that too. I told him no because he gets to do things that don't involve her following him around everywhere.

Thanks for your comments

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Submitted by rlock12 on Thu, 08/20/2015 - 12:54pm

Things went better then expected. BM talked to me civilly today. She understood and going to start taking ss another night through week. Now my husband is whole different ball game. He is not stepping up to take care of his kid so something has to happen. He has to stop taking advantage of me.

Frustration has sit in.

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Submitted by rlock12 on Thu, 08/20/2015 - 8:48am

I had to put my foot down today with my husband. The ex and him have been taking advantage of me in the childcare department. They basically do nothing. I'm doing it all. I get him up, fix breakfast, make sure he gets to and from school take care of him in evenings and make sure his showers.

The mom is barely involved and Dad goes into room and watches t.v. all evening while I do everything last night the Mom wouldn't take the ss because she has to work early in the morning basically pawning him off on me to take care of.

Involving step kids in activites

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Submitted by rlock12 on Wed, 06/24/2015 - 10:43pm

This is survey kinda....

Sometimes I feel bad for not including ss in activities. Like say he is at his mom house and my kids are home. I might do something special with my kids because I know while his away he will with his mom. Then he will also go special outtings with grandparents then once a month he goes with Dad. He sees his grandparents at least three times a month with overnight visit.

Ok! We gave ss a conseqence for repeated telling of mine and the kids personal information.

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Submitted by rlock12 on Tue, 06/23/2015 - 4:50pm

We have ss a consequence of sitting in his room for three days without Xbox or doing anything fun outside of house. Of course the day we start the consequence, it's the he goes for visitation with Mom and of course he gets to do fun things and complains about how bad it is here. So you all can guess the outcome of this meeting.

Really not looking forward to tonight... Sometimes I wish I could disappear. My husband will stick up for me so it's going to be a heated fight with the ex tonight...

Can anyone relate?