DH asks me about leaving work early to sign the kids up for baseball. We know he can't do it alone. Don't henbane tells me when I get home that he signed the step kids up but didn't sign our son up bc he didn't know if I would want him to play. 1) the kid loves baseball, 2) I mentioned asking if he was old enough to play just for exercise so why would I not want him to play? I said I want him to get to play im just don't want to sign him up and him not get to go (bc we know the step kids games and practice will be more important). He tells me his parents are going to help like last year. I'm only concerned that he won't get to really play bc I work so far away from home that I wouldn't make it back in time to take him, and the other 2 are in different leagues so they are at diff ball parks. That means in laws with 1 kid at 1 place and hateful husband at another with the other kid .. His reply is his brother and sister in law can take him bc the nephew is going to be playing the same team as out son. I said that's great but did we ask them & the vehicle they take has 2 seats in the back & they have 2 kids. So where is he gonna sit? .. DH flies off the handle telling me I don't want him to play and since I've made that decision we just won't let him play. My reply is I didn't say that. Onviously I want him to play if he wants to which he does. But I don't want to pay this expensive fee and him not get to go & all I'm trying to do is figure out how he will get there. DH flies off again about how he's already told me how and he isn't discussing it with me & he wasn't talking to me any more bc he didn't want to. .. I finally just said that's what marriage is , you discuss, but no not to you it's your way or I'm just wrong.

Of course I'm ticked that we can't figure out for sure how bs gonna get there for sure but we know 100% the steps will. He even made a comment a while back that bs may not get to go to all his games but that's ok bc it's just t ball and the others games are more important