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Here we are on Christmas Eve.. Having a spat

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Submitted by Wah-wah-11 on Wed, 12/24/2014 - 3:27pm

Over bs and SS...

Bs3 threw something at ss9 .. SS brings it to me and then turns around and takes a ball away from bs .. DH & I. say. give it back .. He doesn't and gets attitude with me and refused to give it back ... So I hand BS the other thing back... He hits SS with it again and DH gets mad at me bc I gave him something back that he was hitting ppl with ... So I say SS doesn't get to take both away from bs.. DH sad I told him to give it back .. Yea and he didn't and u didn't say a word .. So now we are mad at each other over the kids .. Again ...

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Submitted by Wah-wah-11 on Thu, 12/25/2014 - 7:56am

I totally agree and I don't give them back to him when he does stuff like that but at the point I was fed up... And I uses that was my way of showing DH the double standard he has for the kids... I'm not suppose to let bs get away with anything but SS gets away with whatever depending on DH mood. I was just saying u know if he can be a mean lite shit and it's perfectly fine then this time this one is gonna be a mean little shit and it's gonna be fine.. Now once the toy was brought back to me bc he hit him again I took it and it went on too of the fridge...

30 min later when SS was yelling at me bc I told him he couldn't leave the shower running and go sit in his bed and play xbox .. So he goes to get in the shower and he has no hot water and decides to yell at me ... So DH did say something to him about that .. However had I not said anything before he prob would have let it go..