DH wants to go fishing tomorrow and not come home till sometime after school let's out ... Which means wah wah has to pick them up. Ok but make sure he knows he has to mind me .. All 3 kids this evening have been hell on wills, drinks poured on each other, mine was apparently talking about boobs in the store, I took OSS with me & he was fine .. As soon as we get back together ss9 is telling 3 years to talk about boobies, 3 year old is running his mouth, 9 year old is all hysterical at 7 bc he's hungry (we fed them at 330). I'm talking screaming crying hysterics ... I spanked 3 year old for telling me no, calling his brother stupid, telling ppl to shut up... 9 year old grabbed the 3 year olds drink causing it to spill on all 3 of them. Then he's screaming that we are all lying .. So we get to in laws so DH can work the boat for this trip .. I said no body get the basketballs out bc no one is playing .. Ss9 does any way, DH says nothing so I do then DH says u were told not to. Then my in laws come out and he gets it out again and I told him to put it up and he didn't listen .. So DH rolls his eyes at me and I lost it.. Told him I didn't give a shit if he rolled his eyes at me that I was tired of the disrespect and how not even my child listens to me bc he sees that no one really has to and I told SS his attitude caused most of the problems in our home ..ss got in the van when I was putting bs in car seat and he was running his mouth to me about how he doesn't have to listen to me and won't .. I said I don't understand you guys .. This seems to be exactly how it is at moms house. Is this what you want to live like this at both homes? 1 SS said no the other one said yea u do!!
So I told DH he could go fishing but if he wasn't going to be home to get them from school he better have plans for someone to get them bc I can't keep SS if he doesn't have to mind me & he knows that DH won't have my back .. Of course DH gets pissed and said I say enough for 100 ppl by running my mouth ..