Creepy creeper always creeping
I deal with creepy and sneaky now invading everyday of my life now. Sadly it is affecting my mental health and happiness. I love my husband but this is starting to wear on me. I have seen SS14 sneaking in and out of the garage a few times. He goes out there and comes in with a water or a Capri sun (we have a fridge out there) but he is out there longer than it takes to grab one of those and come back in. So today while doing a usual snoop through his closet (where he stashes and smokes his weed) I saw he had taken two of DH's sockets to create a bowl for a bong to smoke weed. I took them. I can't tell dh because he'll know I snooped through his room (I always do and never tell him) and he'll ask why I snooped. Yes it's my house and my right but this kid is always a VERY touchy subject. Also found a baggy with some blue pills. Some were crushed. The only whole one had the imprint rubbed off so I couldn't try and identify it. I have taken an adderall pill from his closet before and these aren't the same. I left that in there. I told DH about the adderall I confiscated and he didn't seem to care. Kid takes someone elses pills and you don't care? Whatever. I will just hold onto the sockets stuffed with burnt weed. We have a camera in the garage but some how it mysteriously quit working so I can't even go back and find recordings of him going through DH's tools and taking sockets (and doing whatever else he does out there). Just tired of this kid and I fear of what's to come in the future. I am to the point where I don't want to be alone in the house with him. He's obviously mental and then taking weird pills and smoking weed?
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How old is he? I did that
How old is he? I did that kind of crap when I was 14-17. I don't think it is that odd, other than he's dumb enough to get caught multiple times. That is pretty stupid.
He's 14. I smoked weed when I
He's 14. I smoked weed when I was 14. Not uncommon by any means. However, I didn't do it or even keep it in my parents house nor did my parents even allow the usage of it (like my DH does).
The pill I took from his room
The pill I took from his room before was a capsule of adderall. This was an oval tablet and I looked on the Internet and adderall can also be an oval blue pill so that must be what it is. He has a friend with adhd so he gets them from him. He doesn't have large amounts of weed like distribution.
Pretty sure it's adderall.
Pretty sure it's adderall. It's an oval blue pill. I looked it up and it comes in that form. He gets the pills from a friend.
Dh doesn't think weed is bad.
Dh doesn't think weed is bad. He says "I did way worse and a little weed is nothing." I told him about the pills. Didn't do anything about that either. Just said "well he has it in his genes." The kid was a huge goober before he came here (I always questioned paternity). Now dh sees he's like he was when he was a kid and I almost think he's proud of it. I can do nothing...except leave. No power here.
To be honest, if I found any
To be honest, if I found any drugs in my house Id be on my way down to the police station to inform them I believe my step-child/child is using drugs and ask for assistance. Let them come to the house, bring a sniffer dog and find everything they can. Then have the police deal with it as they see fit, depending on the age of the kid/teen they may just scare them, they may deal with them with the full force of the law. But so they should, if someone breaks the law they have to be prepared to deal with the consequences.
Tell DH about the pills
Tell DH about the pills immediately, even if it does mean admitting that you looked in on SS.
Dh doesn't care. I've spoken
Dh doesn't care. I've spoken and I was pretty much told to shut up. Leave the kid alone and let him do whatever he wants. He makes dh proud and I am just stressing him out.