Starting a little late....
....but better late than never, right? A house hasn't dropped on me yet. So does that make me wicked witch of the west then? Four years ago when I got the horrible news SS14 (was 10 then) was possibly coming to live here full time I was saying every day "there's no place like home".. but I went no where. I guess having the ruby slippers might've helped? So.. here I am.. still. I knew exactly how this would end up too. A dad that didn't care back then and still doesn't. Only felt he had to bring him here because he didn't want everyone to think he was a deadbeat or horrible father if he didn't ("what a great dad!" They'd all say.) He also wanted to finally end his years of being butt raped by child support. And a tax deduction to boot! Ohhh what a lucky break! BM finally made her bed (I knew that would happen one day)..sent to the big house at least until until SS turns 18. Now I am serving the same sentence...for doing nothing! Upside? She Is A Non Issue now. No more middle of the night drunk calls. No more "you're an asshole" voicemails, over and over and over. But now....Stuck with raising her damn kid. Now the countdown begins until I am finally free. That is...If he actually leaves at 18. :O
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I'm so proud of you Sweet
I'm so proud of you Sweet Pea. Your DH sounds like mine. It doesn't seem to matter what you say and do, your the problem or your not doing enough. I told DH last night that it's all up to him on how well I have a relationship with his kids but I'm no longer going to invest emotionally into any longer. You did the right thing!
Tell me its for GIRLS, too!
Tell me its for GIRLS, too! SD13 could use some straightening up with her attitude and "Oh I have no friends. WHO am I going to trick or treat with?" She is starting to sound like SD19. God help me if SD19 sticks around after she graduates college. She had better be working FT and be as quiet as a mouse in my home.
Oh wait, I want THAT for winter break!
~ Moon
Dad will never put junior in
Dad will never put junior in a job corps or boarding school or send his ass anywhere for that matter! He'll keep letting him do whatever he wants. Then when he turns 18 he'll pat himself on the back and tell himself what a great job he did raising him. Besides this kid is so damn lazy he'd never last in any job corps (unless they had video games of course!)