I'm so creeped out by this....

So a few months ago, I heard from a few people that SS21, turned 21 2 weeks ago, had a GF that was 42, and she has a 21yo & 14yo. She is actually not bad looking. SS had to spend 3 weeks in jail bc of probation violation and was released on his 21st bday.

I picked SD up from BMs last nite and this is what I heard from her. The 42yo GF was a pre-K or K teacher. She quit her job bc they wouldn't let her have a day off to go get SS from jail. GF has since moved from her home, given custody of her 14yo to her mother and moved in with BM and SS21. Also BMs brother is living with them now. I'm sure there is more to it than this bc SD rarely goes to BMs anymore.

I asked a mutual friend that BM pissed off and found out that the GF is bi-sexual and probably going at it with both BM and SS...and with BMs brother too. The GF is friends with the pissed off friend and other friends of hers. There is a lot of pill popping or snorting going on in that house.

That is why I disengaged enough to go get SD (Dad was helping his buddy bc he didn't know SD wanted to come home after fighting with BM).

I'm 52 with a 30yo son. No way in hell would I ever take up with a kid my own sons age....I am still in shock at what the hell is going on.

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That's just...sick. I'll bet

That's just...sick. I'll bet the gf is one of the bms vented about here.

She just gave her home and

She just gave her home and kid to her Mother to raise but I don't know anything else about her.

Honestly SS is good looking, but very very immature. BUT, he is the kind of dude that creeps you out when you interact with him...something is just off.

Not a prize for sure. No

Not a prize for sure. No job, no diploma or even a GED, 3 years in juvie. I would like to hear why she quit that job or got fired...IDK which.

BM left DSO for a guy that is now in prison for sexual battery on his own DD. Lived with a couple and their friend and both men were registered sex offenders. Supposedly one of BMs friends asked SD to play strip poker one night while he was visiting BM.

My late DH was 5 years older than me, DSO is 5 years younger....my safe age.

Gross For crying out loud

Gross :?
For crying out loud they should try out for Jerry Springer

I was a product of the 60's

I was a product of the 60's and 70's...sex drugs and rock n roll and this floored me when I heard it all.

I do trust what the friend says. She reached out to me bc she was trying to protect SD. BM told everyone she regained custody, so the friend was concerned about them....now we just laugh at BM.

Me too. This woman was a

Me too. This woman was a teacher until October...teaching small children. That boggles my mind.

I wouldn't question the age difference if SS was older and more mature. Why I think pills contributed to this mess.

Sorry I saw the skids but

Sorry I saw the skids but only mention SD. YSS has been in a treatment center for a year and he is a BM-bot, believes I broke up the marriage, I caused BM to lose custody so did/will live with BM when he is released.

Things were going good with

Things were going good with SS, even with his behavior issues when he lived with us...then it was like a switch was flipped. He spent the school year getting himself kicked out every week bc he knew he could stay with BM bc we work. At the end of the school year, he went off on me one day about how I would kick them all out and BM still loved Dad and they would go live with her, BM would never kick DSO out but had to divorce him bc DSO was abusive to BM and YSS only.
I lost if at that point...I told him that yes, your Mother did kick your Dad out (I didn't mention the other man) and that your Dad filed for divorce...DSO also told him that even if I did kick him out, he could find other places to live besides his Mother. SS decided he wanted to live with BM and BM wanted him full time so much. In the 6 months he lived with BM, she called the cops on him so much, they had to arrest him and then shuffle him all over the place.

He still worships the POS.