Interesting gathering of Intel last week.

For those who don't know...I created a fake facebook acct and got BM to friend me 3 years ago. I use it to find out very interesting things about BM.

Last week, BM had a big blowout with her sister and BFF of the month, on FB for the world to read. BM is severe borderline (and I'm sure other things) so she can only maintain friendships for a few months at best and then there are blow outs with them.

I log on my real acct and I have a friend request from the BFF. I was curious, accepted and sent a chat...I don't know why you sent this..I know you are BMs BFF...I don't talk shit about her so I don't need any shit starting.

She replied that she just needed to let us know what is going on at BMs house. SD is there maybe 3 days a month and we already know BM is a POS.

I proceeded very guardedly. I know better than to give away too much to a BFF of BMs, even if they are arguing. But I'm tired of BM lying about me, while I'm raising and supporting her kids, so I only repeated true facts to show exactly how bad of a dead beat BM is.

She replied back and gave me some interesting intel.

BM is telling everyone that when she finished her probation for child abuse & and neglect, full custody reverted back to her automatically (HELL NO) and BM was planning on moving her and skids to another state.
I told her the truth. DSO has 100% custody and she can't get it back unless she petitions the court and that BM almost lost her rights to the kids, DSO wouldn't allow that.

BM got disability somehow. She told the BFF that she was getting a check for the back amount for $10,000 and was going to buy all this shit for skids...but she admitted she spent all her money (wasn't 10 grand) on herself and didn't spend any on the skids...BM admitted this in front of SD.
I said she didn't even pay her back child support, and she is supposed to pay child support.
BM tells everyone that DSO refuses to buy things for the skids and she has to spend all her money on them so she pays support that way. ROFLAMAO.
I said the last thing BM bought for SD (SS in treatment and OSS is 20) was her dress for spring formal.
BFF tells me that her and her hubby and BMs Dad paid for her half of the dress bc BM cried too poor. DSO paid other half and shoes and accessories.

Last week DSO asks BM to take SD to dentist. BM said she was having lung surgery and couldn't.
I asked BFF if she knew what was going on....BFF replied ROFLMAO...BM was having stomach scoped for reflux.

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I like it bc the BFF isn't

I like it bc the BFF isn't all up in my business. We traded some info, asked some questions and that is it.

Like I said, I only spoke facts. I didn't just trash her to trash her, boy BFF trashed her though. So even if it comes back to me...I only spoke the truth and what is public info.

I even told the BFF....The woman doesn't work, they know SD is only there a few days a month, non school days, and SS is in a resident programs. IDK how you ppl believe her lies....Think ppl, think.

No, she friended my real

No, she friended my real account. Sorry I didn't specify that.

No one and I mean no one but you all and DSO knows about the fake acct. You ought to see her go off if something she has posted gets brought up to her (once she was posting about DSO and he let her know someone told him about it)....drives her crazy trying to figure out which one of her close friends ratted her out lol.

DSO doesn't go thru the state

DSO doesn't go thru the state so they couldn't take it. I have bitched about it, but he is too damn big to drag to file. He works and his money pays for things she need so whatever.

It's only $50/month, but DSO has that whole 'I'm the man and I take care of my kids mentality', its the principle of it though for me.

Bm did get some money and she did give DSO $100 a year ago. But in 53 months, she has paid 8 months worth.