I not sure how to start this but here we go. I have been with my husband and his children since 2008. When I moved in the girls were only 9 and 10 years old, they are now 15 and 16. Things were wonderful until Summer of 2013, when their mother who was never involved in their lives, decided she now wanted to be mommy after be served with a warrant for her arrest for non payment of child support, she only paid $260.00 per month for 3 children. Long story short, she called the police on us, made false reports, came to our home and would argue with my husband about never having had a chance to be their mom and how he should let her be one now. She called Child Protective Services and had an investigation opened on nothing but lies, which of course the case was closed and no abuse or neglect was found, that is what she claimed. Our lives became a living hell, constantly wondering when the next knock at the door would occur. One day when I got home from work our house was being searched, drawers gone through, safe busted open, cabinets tore through because the mother said we were on drugs, again, nothing found, no charges because it wasn't true. My husband although I said we should file papers for custodial interference, and have a restraining order put in place he decided to let his girls live with their mother. We both have good jobs, and we pay all of the insurance, all the co-pays which is $5000.00 a year, which we always have to pay because one daughter has Type 1 Diabetes and $5000.00 is our deductible, now we have to provide a car and car insurance as well as all clothing, all dental, vision, school fees and activities, all camps, basically everything except the food they eat when they are at their mothers, she gets to claim both the girls on her income taxes, and if the girls want to go to the movies, a fair, a party we have to pay any expenses related to those activities as well. Our obligation is over $1000.00 a month. The girls come to visit and all they do is say terrible things to their father, constantly make fun of me and laugh at me, refuse to clean any mess they make, which they do intentionally and will literally drop something on the kitchen floor and look at me and laugh, step on it and walk away. My husband will not do anything to correct them because he's doesn't want to make them mad. I love my husband but I'm about to file for divorce, I just can't take it any longer.