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Submitted by CompletelyPuzzled on Mon, 05/12/2014 - 12:48pm

That I would get a tattoo with the Skids names on it???? DF and I have been discussing Tattoos. I really want to get one with my kids names on it. I have been thinking about it for a while. DF and I were discussing this. He was helping me get a design idea when he said I could have four lines, one for each of the kids' names. I told him straight up that I wasn't comfortable tattooing his kids names on me, as they aren't my kids. I only see these kids 6 or 7 times a year. They are not bonded with me. I really don't know what he was thinking. He acts like I wounded him. Am I wrong??? Would you tattoo someone else's kids names on you?

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leslie814's picture

Submitted by leslie814 on Mon, 05/12/2014 - 12:55pm

OH My goodness. I would never ever ever do that ever. The skids will not find it meaningful they would probably see it as creepy lol.

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Submitted by askYOURdad on Mon, 05/12/2014 - 12:57pm

BM's husband did this- tattooed his kids and skids' names on his arm. YSD was about 6 or 7 when he got it and she asked point blank "what if you and my mom get divorced?" lol.

I'm not into tattoos so I can only answer that I would be hard pressed to permanently display anyone's name on me, I would definitely draw the line at my own kids.

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Submitted by hereiam on Mon, 05/12/2014 - 12:58pm

Maybe you should get your neighbor's names tattooed on you, as well. And the mailman's, while you're at it.

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Submitted by CompletelyPuzzled on Mon, 05/12/2014 - 1:55pm

Actually he does want to tattoo my kids names on him. I told him no. I told him that I didn't feel comfortable with that. And, I felt like it would be disrespectful to their father, who is very involved in their lives.

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Submitted by I got a good one on Mon, 05/12/2014 - 3:14pm

I actually gasped out loud in disbelief when I read your post that your husband would think for a second that you would tattoo your steps' names on your body. It's not like it's temporary for a day or something. A tattoo is permanent. That is just crazy.

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Submitted by positivelyfourt... on Mon, 05/12/2014 - 3:21pm

I'd rather have gonorrhea.

Easier to get rid of than a tattoo.

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Submitted by Gabriels Mom on Tue, 05/13/2014 - 10:14am

I have a mother's knot on my wrist that has blue dots to indicate SS and DS. I'm close to my SS. I wanted an Ambigram of their names but I don't want to start a fight with BM.