annoying.
a couple days ago, I "unfollowed" sd on fb because her constant selfies and reposting of her pregnancy pics for attention were annoying me SO badly.
today I posted about my dream. it was about the dryer. I posted that sometimes real noises make their way into my dreams, and I dreamed that i woke up and heard the dryer going and realized it had been running all night. I panicked, worrying about it catching fire, and ran to the basement to shut it off, and it wouldn't turn off. hit the power button, nothing. opened the door and it kept spinning. then i woke up and it was actually the fan that I have running every night for white noise that i was hearing.
about a half hour later, I get a notification that sd mentioned me in a comment, so I click on it. she posted that she dreamed that her kid was sticking fruit gushers up his nose and she woke up and he was picking her nose. then she dreamed that she was getting stung by bees in the ears and she woke up and he was poking in her ears. she commented that it reminded her of my status. :? this is not the first time she has basically stolen a status from me. I really don't care that she posts her dreams (if she even really had those dreams) but I do find it annoying that she reads my statuses and then posts something similar. wtf is that all about?
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Block....She doesn't need to
Block....She doesn't need to see your posts...
if I completely blocked her,
if I completely blocked her, it would be nothing but a drama fest. seriously. it would start another war that I just don't want to deal with. she is very annoying. but the drama and warring with fdh's family if I blocked her would be even worse.
You can block BM and you wont
You can block BM and you wont see anything that she posts or comments on and she wont see any of your stuff either.
Yep, ^this^
Yep, ^this^
Well you know she is an
Well you know she is an attention whore... dont let what she posts bother you.
By not getting her direct newsfeed... you are eliminating some of that. So that is good.
As far as if she tags you in a post, just dont read it. I know that may be hard as I dont know if I could do that but it's an option.
Other options- Block her and to hell with what anyone else says. There can be a war on FB with inlaws or whatever or you can spend your time being pissed at what she posts.
Or you can just stop caring so much what she posts. Who freakin cares that she posts stuff similar to you. It just shows how weird she is. Maybe she admires you? Maybe she is playing some game... and in a way she is winning by irritating you....
Life is too short for going tit for tat with some young girl on FB of all places.
I know this is baby steps for you...but you can do it!
I don't know what her deal
I don't know what her deal is, but I won't play the game. no tit for tat here! it's irritating, but I don't lose sleep over it. sometimes I am able to even laugh at how ridiculous she is. I just need to vent it out then I can forget about it....til she does it again.
Teenage/Young Adult SD are
Teenage/Young Adult SD are the worse! LOL!
My niece18 and YSD14 follow each other on IG and my niece said YSD posted a pic of her and DH at our wedding and was like "MCM- my go to guy, always here when I need him. and then #hiswedding. MCM= Man Crush Monday.
Funny she had just put on FB & Twitter 3 days prior how her dad is never there for her... Okay but now he is her go to guy- whatever.
So my niece was annoyed because she knows how the skids act towards me and she was mad that she put #hiswedding so my niece #zerostepdramaandDHwedding. Well I guess YSD ended up removing her comment. LOL. At least she knows someone is on to her antics.
It annoyed me, but I just figure I am not going to let that affect me. Think positive. I know YSD is an ass. So I shouldnt be surprised when she posts stupid stuff.
I'm never surprised. like the
I'm never surprised. like the other day, I knew since it was throwback Thursday, at some point in my newsfeed, I would see the very retro picture of sd with her big belly, you know, from like 18 months ago. (eye roll). I know to expect this kind of BS out of her, but it is still annoying. I'm just glad I can laugh sometimes instead of getting ate up with rage like I used to.
Boy, for all her stories,
Boy, for all her stories, she's damn lucky her baby wants to come and play with HER when she is sleeping and the baby is awake. The baby could just as easily be curious about the WINDOW or how a DOORKNOB works. You know what I mean...
I was thinking the same
I was thinking the same thing...how is she asleep if this child is awake enough to be on top of her, prodding her in her sleep? if my kids hiccup in their sleep from 3 rooms away, I hear it and wake up! I think she is either exaggerating or making it up completely.
There is another feature on
There is another feature on FB that might be handy. You can set your posts to 'custom' and then have your posts be 'hidden' from certain users. And that can be your default.
So if you hide her newsfeed and you hide YOUR newsfeed from her, the only way she can 'reach' you on FB is by tagging you or messaging you. But she will get NOTHING from you, so no more 'I had a weird dream, just like bi' posts.
I really think your SD does
I really think your SD does shit like this because she knows it bothers you...I believe she is still playing games with you...after all, a leopard doesn't change it's spots....