Facebook... Gah!
H wanted to use my Facebook to look at SD Facebook. I told him no, but he is welcome to create his own account. I do not want to friend SD who has been planting little seeds of doubt and trying to split H and I up since day one.
A while back, there was a discussion about why my Facebook is so private.
I don't want anybody harassing me or looking me up.
I know Facebook would just be another weapon for relational aggression.
SD and BM do not need access to me on the net.
I value my privacy.
SD tried to plant seeds of doubt in H mind by asking what I have to hide.
This shit better not happen again.
If H would rather listen to all th bullshit SD and BM have to say about me and take it to heart instead of actively being married to me I am so close to just hanging it up.
His wild accusations that me and kids are just waiting for him to die and we're just using him are coming from somewhere.
IMO, I don't owe H or Sd or any of their people any kind of transparency.
I do not owe abusers anything.
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Don't bite. If he wants to
Don't bite. If he wants to know what his xw is doing, he can go live there.
Why on earth would I want to
Why on earth would I want to spy on anyone?
I have my own life to live and more than enough problems already.
Seems like that would only bring more problems.
Guilty Daddy has accused me
Guilty Daddy has accused me of all sorts of things on my FB account--an account that I rarely visit and set up just to keep in contact with my grown bios.
Because FB defaults you into "single" (as opposed to in a relationship/married etc.), Guilty Daddy had an absolute tantrum over this and thought I was "fishing" because I didn't go into my profile and change the defaults. They even made a Southpark episode about this and I made SURE that Guilty Daddy saw this!!
He got so angry one time because my bioson actually DID go in the Air Force. For weeks he would say "your bioson is NOT going into the Air Force--he's just dicking around." Of course HIS three PASed out kids were uber failing and continue to crater fail in school with grades just barely reflecting that they are warming a seat in between skipping classes outright. But that is NEVER mentioned! Double standard much?
So he made a fake FB account to try and see what I was "up to." There the fake account sits to this day because he now has ZERO interest in computer stuff other than to surf porn and look at the news (did I mention that he USED to be a computer tech and I actually interned at the workplace?)
He rarely brings it up now. I never go on FB or email or anything from home that he can try and "hack" then twist and use "against" me to justify his alcoholic rages.
Let him do his own spying!!