Stop this Instant!....BM needs her money oops I mean CS!
So yesterday I blogged about how SO was going to F-around with BMs CS…He is going to pay her in full...but because
his daughter was down for 2 weeks…he thought he’d F with her(she does this to him) and cut her CS in half and will
pay her the rest sometime this month(in her mind she’ll think he cut in half because their daughter was with him for half the month- we realize
this would not uphold in the courts)…
So anyways today rolls around and BM calls SO, SO ignores her call . So she then sends SO an e-mail that reads-
“It is very important and will only take a minute please call me”.
SO sends her back an e-mail
“Working-can’t take a call now-if its an emergency pls e-mail”
The whole time SD was down this woman called every day at least 3 times a day…she would call at 11:30 PM… midnight. She has no boundaries.
This is all about her CS$$...it is very important -BS…
So everyone, “Please” stop what you’re doing BM needs her money…..
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Ridiculous, I cant stand BMs
Ridiculous, I cant stand BMs who act like they cant survive without a CS check. They should not be relying so heavily on it.
Yes I know...having SD down
Yes I know...having SD down for those 2 weeks was like a light going off...I had a MAJOR epiphany, SD was telling me that if BMs parents who are wealthy didn't help them out...they would be "so screwed." Why is it that the NCP is ALWAYS held accountable and responsible for ALL financing when it comes to the children? And if they cant give more...they look like the asshole. BM knew what she was doing when she wanted kids, she didn't have a job when she met SO in her mid 30s, their entire marriage she didn't work. Its pathetic, that these BMs think the world owes them something for having kids. I am a BM too, I was left with A LOT less than she was..at least I had a job...But if she cant afford to do something...then why did you want kids? And why haven't you done anything to improve your quality of life pre and post -having children?
BM has a job, she was forced
BM has a job, she was forced too once she became a single parent...didn't have one beforehand. Anyways, in odd form SO actually helped BM get the job she has now...She is in a Customer Service Role-she doesn't want to go beyond that.
Yes I question SO's judgment after dealing with BM as well and a few of his ex gf's...all of them have need to be "medicated"....
BM did the same thing to DH.
BM did the same thing to DH. DH gets his CS taken directly from his check so he has no control over it anyway but BM would text DH saying that she needs to pay her rent etc.
UMMMM newsflash my DH is not responsible for your bills! It is your responsibility just as much as it is DH's to provide for the child and bills associated with said child that he helped create BUT it is YOUR job BM to use that money and YOUR OWN MONEY to pay the bills that you create!!!!
It has infuriated me...I used
It has infuriated me...I used to actually like BM then she got weird and interrogative and became obsessed with money, once I came into the picture...she wasn't like this before-"how do I know this"-me and SO were friends for a few years before "we" got together.
Hahaha....Code Blue.. By the
Hahaha....Code Blue.. By the way loved what your STB EX did to his BM, paying her at the beginning and end of the month...then she has to wait 2 months before she gets her other, "installment" money. Classic...and may have to use that...if you don't mind!
That would burn BM's ass to
That would burn BM's ass to the core! Bahahahaha and it would be soooo worth it!
He does lol...But a few
He does lol...But a few things have happened that BM has failed to let SO know about...in that regard SO is livid! But yes...acting like this is "childs play"...but entertaining to say the least.
ugh. I want to f with BM
ugh. I want to f with BM too.
This year DH overpaid CS because he failed to realize that even though he has been used to giving BM a set amount every two weeks, there are actually 26 pay periods in a year, not 24. When those extra payday months come around WHY THE HELL didn't he notice it and do something about it?!?! Oh yeah, because I wasn't around to keep him from screwing himself over again, and again, and again.
Anyway, when the second 3-payday month of the year rolled around, he was prepared. I wanted him to skip one payment altogether and just give her the set amount for the other 2 paydays that month. I know she relies on it as if it is her income so, yes, I was being a bitch. He didn't do it that way, he gave her 1/2 two times and then the full amount on the third payday. He also never asked her to reimburse him for the previous overpayment.
We now have another opportunity to mess with her "income" but DH won't do it. Because of the way they are splitting X-mas break, she won't get the kids (and the check that comes along with them) until Christmas Eve which is several days later than she is used to getting the money. On top of that, January is another 3 payday month for DH. I want him to skip the first one and then pay the normal amount for the next two paydays. I think she would flip getting money late right before X-mas and then having to go another 2 weeks to get paid.
This is why DH is a better person than me. }:)
It may be different in Canada
It may be different in Canada but in the US many people can and do pay CS through the state. This is good because if BM doesn't get the CS on time, she can call/be told to call the state and nag them instead of the person paying. Another thing that's great is that SO won't have to write out the check. I know DH hated writing BMs name on the CS check. You might want to look into that.
It works that way here too.
It works that way here too. DH and BM didn't go through the state though. They made arrangements outside of the usual agency that people employ around here. It's like he never even thought of the ramifications their "agreement" would cause in case either of them remarried. There is so much BS in their divorce decree it makes me want to vomit. I'm pretty sure some of it isn't even legal and couldn't be held up in court if either of them challenged it. I just want him to follow the state guidelines and get it taken directly from his check so that I never have to see her name on his checks ever again.
Yep...my CS is actually paid
Yep...my CS is actually paid thru the state known as the FRO. SO's was once set up like that just under 13 years ago-he lost a really good paying job because of his divorce...Anyways, the government took away his license when he lost his job because he couldn't pay his CS on time...his ex wouldn't withdraw him from the program;Finally she agreed to, so he got his license back and got a job...even though he way over paid BM. He paid BM $30,000 the year he left.
Apparently, once you withdraw from the program you cant get back into it.
Yes it would be easier, if she would just deal with them! But unfortunately, that's not the case.
Sad update- Found out while
Sad update-
Found out while on lunch that SO agreed to give BM the remaining half tonight, I wanted to fuck with her right before new years....she's done a lot of things.
Its sick that her daughter and son have mental health issues, never once informed SO-the only thing she informed him of was that she didn't have her CS.
Do these females not get that they look like really shitty parents? Especially when you have a paper trail.