Livid.
I think my husband has lost his damn mind. Seems to be rampant on the site today.
We bought some land, (in the woods) we have been clearing land for almost a year and are now going to have a small cabin delivered to the land. We have put in a lot of time, blood, sweat and MONEY into this project.
We have always talked about the first night there, would just be me and DH. Kind of a sentimental/romantic gesture.
The cabin should have been delivered weeks ago, but it is just too wet. We are just waiting on it to dry up.
DH tells me last night that if the cabin is delivered while SS is here for vacation, then it will be him and SS staying at the cabin. WTF?
DH and I really do not fight. But last night was a fight. I was pissed and tried to explain to him how if SS got to go stay before me, I would have nothing to do with the cabin again. (IF HE WENT WITH ANYONE BESIDE ME THE FIRST TIME, I WOULD HAVE NOTHIGN TO DO WITH IT.!) SO THEN HE SAID THOSE MAGICAL WORDS.... "Why do you hate my son so much?"
Again...WTF? Then I really came unglued. How dare he! He has NEVER said that to me. Not in 12 years. And now he wants to pop that out because I think that WE should break in OUR cabin before anyone else?!
I am almost speechless. I got NO sleep last night because I was so mad.
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I am so angry for you. I
I am so angry for you. I don't even know how to tell you to get through to someone so STUPID. Even if SS was your own son, IT WOULDN'T MATTER you still wouldn't want him there. You should ask him why he hates YOU so much.
Whhhoooaaa I am mad for you.
Whhhoooaaa I am mad for you. What is he even thinking?????
OHHHH Willow! That sucks!
OHHHH Willow! That sucks! They just don't get it!
DH and I got into it this weekend because SS14 came over and DH spent the WHOLE time he was there sitting in SS room watching TV with him, even slept in there with him! While he basically ignored BS3 and I. WTF? Of course when I dared say something about it, I am just a jealous bitch, he gets to see me and BS3 24/7, SS14 only once a week or so, if SS14 came out of my crotch I wouldn't care, blah freakity blah the standard "you just don't like skid" crap.
What in the world did your DH have to say about the fact that the plan all along had been for the 2 of you to spend the first night there and now you're possibly being kicked to the curb??
What in the entire hell was
What in the entire hell was he thinking!?!!? He really has lost his mind. Maybe after things have calmed down you can talk to him about it again and say that this is our cabin and we need to "break it in" first. Maybe steer his thoughts in another direction, like all the adult fun two can have up there in the woods!
He probably had some sort of
He probably had some sort of discussion with SS about the cabin. And his reply to you is the standard excuse. They would rather disappoint us than to say no to their golden child.
LOL IC!
LOL IC!
What in the world did your DH
What in the world did your DH have to say about the fact that the plan all along had been for the 2 of you to spend the first night there and now you're possibly being kicked to the curb??
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Last night he said that he only sees SS twice a year for a few weeks. (Talks and texts several times a day) and that he wanted to share that cabin with SS.
Now this morning, he is blaming it on booze and saying he did not really mean it. Bull...he drank a few beers like he does most nights and NEVER get drunk or anything like that. so now he is trying to crawfish, but I am not buying.
No he's stupid. He went to
No he's stupid. He went to sleep & thought about it & probably talked to some people about it & they told him he was an ass. Now he's blaming it on the alcohol.
What romantic little getaway
What romantic little getaway for him and his son. Give him a tube of Ky and send him on his way, then.
Seriously, what an ass. And I am with you, I would never, ever go there if he takes his son there first. This is something the two of you have been planning and working hard on together and you should spend the first night there together (and not because you hate his son, what a stupid thing to say).
I think they use that line so we will then bend over backwards trying to prove it untrue. I would tell him to bend over so I could stick my foot up his ass (without the Ky).
Actually, you should tell him that just because you love him and want to christen the cabin with him, does not equate to hating his son. It's not like you said his son can NEVER go there. Then, you should show him the lingerie you were planning on wearing for that christening. But hey, never mind, go have fun with your son.
What romantic little getaway
What romantic little getaway for him and his son. Give him a tube of Ky and send him on his way, then.
LMAO! I needed a good laugh this morning... thanks!
It must be the fog, it's
It must be the fog, it's sucking the brains out of these morons.
If we are nice, it doesn't
If we are nice, it doesn't count. Ever noticed that? The nice is for nothing.
yup
I am not only livid...I am
I am not only livid...I am extremely hurt. I would have NEVER seen this coming. And I know that NOW he is saying that he was not thinking clearly and he really wants US to go first.
But how do you get over the fact that somewhere in his mind he thought this was ok. In his mind I was good enough to work my ass off, spend a butt ton of money on a place that he would rather take the skid? GAG!
^^^ exactly!!
^^^ exactly!!
Willow....I was two
Willow....I was two paragraphs into this post when I thought 'Oh sh*t! I see where this is going!
In case you missed it, I am in a similar situation with DW. Every year I arrange a little get-a-way to a remote location deep in the mountains. It's a high-end hotel that specializes in spa treatments and has a 5-star restaurant to boot. We've gone 3 times and I thought this was our annual ritual - you know? A little romantic get-a-way for just the two of us. So last year when I mentioned the plans to DW to return to this place, she asks "Oh! Can we arrange it on a weekend that SS is with us? I would love for him to see the place!"
Needless to say, I haven't made mention of this place ever again....