Now ss19 is being evicted from his apartment...
...and who does he coming crying to? You got it, daddy. And me of course, now expecting me to be all nice after the way he's been treating me? He has some Kahoonies. My Dh came home today telling me all this and that he had already told ss that he's burned his bridges with me, then ss cried about how it's all the divorce's fault and how he hasn't had a home or family in 6 years and how steelrose always says no to anything to do with dh's family but lets my kids live here, and on and on and on. DH even called BM and asked if ss could stay there just for awhile and she said no, that her bf and ss don't get along, then she hung up on dh. When he told me that I said "well bm and smom and BOTH hanging up on you, NOOOOO ss is allowed to ever live here again. We have NO ROOM (read my lips dh) in this 1200 sq ft place we had to move into b/c you had cancer and I had to work 3 jobs to pay the bills".
My foot is put down firmly this time, NO MORE ss MOVING BACK IN WITH US. He had 3 chances with us and ruined each one. Now he needs to grow up and get a freakin job.
Steelrose just effin showed her thorns today }:)
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Oh, hell no! When SD22 got
Oh, hell no!
When SD22 got divorced, I was worried she would ask to move in here. Thank God, she didn't. Her and her 2 kids moved in with BM.
Even though my husband and I had a deal a long time ago that no other adult live with us, I was worried he would want to make an exception.
Why did he get evicted?
Good for you, stick to your
Good for you, stick to your guns! The fact that even his own mother said no says a lot. Surely he has a friend he can stay with temporarily while he gets his crap together and finds a new place and a better job and whatever else he needs to do. And if even his own friends won't help him, why on earth should you?
Give him your local YMCA
Give him your local YMCA phone number and address if you're feeling charitable, but don't let him back in your home. It sounds like you're sticking to your guns so good for you.
Hopefully, he will take a hint and find someone else to live with temporarily.
He got evicted b/c his gf
He got evicted b/c his gf that was finally shipped off to Hawaii to a mental institution got him fored from his job a few months ago, she left his place in ruins, and his life. He finally had a good job too. Work source has a department that helps homeless teens get on their feet and he has worn out their welcome so to speak also. He has worn out his welcome with all his friends and family. DH might ask his aunt to take him in b/c he is on the list to go into Job Corps. Once he's there he should be fine for a couple years, get out and have skills for a good income. And maturity to go with the skills.
The biggest problem I have with him is that he is an extremely overweight nocturnal binge eater. He used to cook full course meals in my kitchen during the night and then leave the mess for me to clean up, thinking there was no way anyone would know what he made, eat in private, and then hide the dishes and leftovers. We would find plates, bowls, silverware, cups and pots in the oddest places like in boxes and cupboards in the garage and bathrooms and under beds, etc. Once I found a bowls of rotting spag under the downstairs bathroom sink with maggots in it. I was so appalled I wanted to call the police. DH took pics and showed the counselor but ss19 denied everything. I lost my entire original set of dishes/pots/pans/cutlery b/c he threw everything into the garbage also. I would search his room weekly to try and find things but always came up several short. I even searched the shrubs and along the road for my dishes, to no avail.
DH won't admit it but his son has some serious issues and honestly I am not sure Job Corps is the place for him. I think he needs to get a thorough mental health eval and some serious counseling. He has some abandonment issues among others that need to be addressed at some point in his life. Like I've said, the BM in our situation is completely MIA. Luckily for ss16 we've had him the whole last almost 5 years so he's landed fairly well on his emotional and psychological feet.
I'm glad I finally won full custody of my kids too b/c my x is the same way, and now my boys have a fighting chance in life. I am proud of bs18 who started a full time job in an automotive shop (welding and other things) for now. He's making more then me!
even his own mom says no that
even his own mom says no that tells you something! And bc step dad doesn't get along with him hummmmm. just sayin'